I just want to say that nobody do not care how you feel or stress you is of not getting nowhere. What you need to do is do some research of some places they have future events near your area, and keep going to it on a regular basis so you can introduce yourself to others in the lifestyle. Trust me it works.

I went through the same thing when being a rookie in this lifestyle. And now I am doing big things and created stuff of my own which is doing very good now. I think everyone can do the same, just don't get fustrated and stress of not getting anywhere. Like I said above nobody on here care about your feelings period. Get up off your seat and make things happen.

Go on google and type in " tips for single males in swinging lifestyle " it some articles will give you the keys to success.

You would be suprised what you worked for pay off in a good position you put yourself in.