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My hubby and I are newbies so we've decided to start out with a threesome then work our way into full swing and clubs. I've done a threesome before but it's been several years ago and he has never. I'm oh so looking forward to this!!!

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Well, Laughing -- since you have listed your upper age limit as 99, that puts us in your swinging ballpark! We'd happily reminisce with you -- give you a little seminar on that era. Complete with demo's -- of all that we can recall....lol. Seriously, you have a nice profile and great certs. Sounds like you would have fit right in!

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We always feel like we were born late and belonged in the 60's!

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Gosh -- where to begin.... Well, in the "roaring 60's", fueled with strange herbs, we were not often sure what the permutations were. Kind of a "group grope" in many cases - insofar as we remember... When we decided to formalize it into something called swinging, it was full swap. Damned if I was going to be left out!

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I have no idea what "most" swingers do. I haven't met most of them yet. We started out with full swap right from the start, and never looked back. We have met scores of swingers, though, and to the best of our knowledge they all started with full swap. That's based on a small sample, considering how many swingers there are, but it does seem to indicate a trend, at least in our area.

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We were right into full swap and had no issues. If you've communicated and are ready I'm not sure the initial after-play feelings would be any different. We do see a lot of people looking for exclusively threesomes, particularly for a FMF. I think so many threads are devoted to that topic that it would be foolish to try and add.

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I think what most people here would tell you is to go at your own pace. I'm lucky to have a beautiful wife who truly enjoys watching me with another woman, and takes a fancy to the ladies herself. We started with a SF friend and had a great first experience. We've been to clubs and started with exhibitionist sex there with each other. Communication between you two is key. Set boundaries and work within those for the night, then discuss your likes/dislikes and what, if anything you'd like to try different the next time.

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LOL a mere towel would never suffice .

Mrs sav

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I would offer you a towel but I prefer when you are wet....

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We didn't start with threesomes nor with soft swing. We jumped right in with both feet and haven't dried off yet.......Go at your own pace and worry not what others think is right. The important thing is to do what's right for YOU BOTH.

Mrs Sav

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