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TOPIC: Declining ettiquette
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Created by:
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On a few occasions, my husband and I have met a couple and we're just not attracted. Typically, I have been very kind, but truthful. I'll normally say something like, "we enjoyed meeting you, but we just feel that there's not enough equal attraction between us. We hope to see you around and wish you the best "
Most recently, we came across another of these situations. My husband was bothered, because, he said, that we've said this to a few couples, but nobody has ever said it to us. I pointed out that, although nobody has ever said this to us, we have been blown off many times with lies and lame excuses. One night, following a date that had a lot of lead-up, the other couple chose to fake a family emergency to bow out, going to the length of faking a phone call and summoning fake tears. It was weird and awkward. This whole adventure is about sexual relationships. It requires maturity, and, I believe, honesty. Why do so many people find it difficult or scary to be honest and kind? Why the need to hide behind lies? Aren't we grown-ups?
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