Wrong reasons VS right reasons: Swingers Discussion 1932541021

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TOPIC: Wrong reasons VS right reasons

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User Details are only visible to members.	I kinda like John Lennon's remark: "Do it! If it feels good, do it again!"
Charlotte NC			Username hidden (544 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	I think that the right reason, in the long run, is simply to have fun. If you can embrace that one concept, the rest fall into line. If you aren't having fun...why do it?
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User Details are only visible to members.	I get it sexy girl. It just makes me laugh when I read that in profiles. I just want to write them and say, "ok. so you're just like the other 95% of us. it doesn't make you unique, get over yourself already". In 4 years, we've met a lot of people. Very few can say it is actually a lifestyle for them. I do realize, however, that the numbers may vary a little up there in "swinger mecca". LOL I'll bet Muslims hate when we refer to something other than Mecca, as mecca. :)
Port Canaveral FL			Username hidden (3472 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	That's my point M, so is "the lifestyle". :)
Port Canaveral FL			Username hidden (3472 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Gwen, thanks for tolerating me. LOL M, referring to the act of swinging as "the lifestyle" does not mean I think everyone involved has decided to make it the central focus of their lives or relationship. All these profile declarations to this effect are silly. Whether it consumes your every waking thought or you only play once a year, you're in or you're not. In for a penny, in for a pound.
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User Details are only visible to members.	J, I always love your answers! G
Visalia CA			Username hidden (4125 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	scandle... you may be disciplined for giving away sls secrets such as this one. what a difference a year makes. maybe a year or so ago, i got BLASTED for suggesting there are right and wrong reasons for being in the lifestyle. regardless, i still stand by what i said. there ARE wrong reasons for being in the lifestyle. it is NOT just right because it seems right to you. if you want to argue exactly what those wrong reasons are, be my guest, but saying there are no right or wrong reasons means you haven't thought this question thru, even if the OP agrees with you. guess what? he's not the teacher judging who has the best essay about your summer vacation. there are wrong reasons for being in the lifestyle for one reason. when you are here for the wrong reason, whatever it may be, you are involving other people in your bullshit. no one here has a profile that states, "we're very fucked up, about to lose our marriage, hoping sex with others will help us hate each other less...". that means you're involving me in your bullshit without my knowledge or consent. i have a right to know that the male half of your couple is bi because his sexual behavior directly introduces me to a level of risk that I ALONE have a right to accept or decline. i have to the same right to decline involving myself in your issues. it does not matter if you "issues" show themselves during our time together or not. i do not want to contribute to your problems knowingly or otherwise. when you're here for the wrong reasons and don't tell others, you are wrong. canada(person)... two weeks ago you posted about a boyfriend who pushes you into this lifestyle and even invites people over without your knowledge. if you are still with this person... you need to seek therapy immediately. that is not a put down, but a serious concern for your well-being. you need a professional who can help you to see some things you are clearly missing in your decision making. OP... how can john be the winner, when he clearly did not follow the rules? you said to keep answers SHORT! like mine. :)
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User Details are only visible to members.	At ground level, there really are very few right/wrong reasons. The only really important elements are A) that everyone is singing from the same sheet of music, and B) that the experience solidifies and grows the relationship. If you're both having fun, and your relationship is growing more solid as a result, then Go For The Gold! If you're not having fun or your relationship is Not growing closer, then you should drop swinging and take up something else that might work better.
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User Details are only visible to members.	Ya I was aware of that as I do web design for a living, but more modern forums software has a button you can click and it actually puts it into quotes and italics and actually puts the persons name next to it so it's really easy is all.
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User Details are only visible to members.	Glad to be of assistance, ma'am!
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