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TOPIC: Wrong_reasons_VS_right_reasons
Created by: FlirtAway
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After my last topic you either love me or hate me, lol so I have another question. I ask this because I have been told our reason for getting into the LS isn't a good/right reason. So I wanted to see everyone else ideas of right and wrong.

What are your ideas of the right reasons vs the wrong reasons to get into the lifestyle.

Please keep answers SHORT. Just list them, not looking for explanations.

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We're both very attentive. Feel free to show us anything you like. :)

Cocoa Beach FL
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I would love to show ya how difficult I can be...;)

Woodridge IL
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Fruit, sounds you guys are just too difficult to work with. ;)

And um... LOVE the tagline.

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Right vs. Wrong Reason, it's not me to decide as long as I get laid at the end of the night and don't get my hair pulled out...ha

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Well said Gina in TX !!!!

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Right reason: to have fun because you already have a good relationship and want to live out some fantasies with each other because you like to see your partner enjoying himself/herself because it's something you BOTH want to do

Wrong reason: because he'll leave me if I don't (yes, we met a couple like that) b/c our sex life w/ each other is boring and we need excitement to save our marriage b/c he wants me to do it

Gina Doing it for all the right reasons.

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hahahaha Jim, you are the best....how are you and Ms. Paula doing?

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If I was at a club and saw Lost looking like that picture, I know what MY vibe would be! :-)

Jim

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i dunno. ive always been black and white mentally LOL...so its either right or wrong with me. If it could go either way I would probably to go the club/party/whatever with zero expectations and go with the vibe and mood and chemistry of things.

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listen to your gut. Whether we like to admit it or not.....we know when we have a good or bad feeling about something. We know when something is good, and when it is not. If your gut says its not right, if you have that feeling about it...hold off and discuss things. If you have the feeling that this is good, this is "right".....then move at the pace of the slowest person. No rush, no hurry, there is no certificate when you do it. You don't win anything. But listen to yourself in a true way. We know what we know...sometimes we do not LIKE what we feel and know, so we choose to do otherwise.

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TOPIC: Wrong reasons VS right reasons
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