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TOPIC: Wow,_I_feel_like_an_ass!!!
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PurpleFire; "Experience is just how many mistakes you've made that you actually learned something from". It's nice that the other couple responded to you with a 'hakuna metata'. It sounds like you've found some keepers, even if you and they never play.

Finding your comfort zones is important and it appears that you're doing all the right things. You hit it on the head when you commented that you need to be careful what you hit the Send button on, as it's So Easy to inadvertantly write something that could be viewed as insensitive or rude and Impossible to "un-send" once you hit that button.

We wish you both well! :-)

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WTF is the "issue"?

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First off, if there is an "issue" you should not be setting up any dates, play or otherwise. Second, don't offer reasons, excuses, or apologies for your decisions. Third, watch out for "mentors" that prey on nubies and try to lure them out of their comfort zone or suggest things they're not ready for. If you told them the truth they shouldn't be offended so it's not anything to lose sleep over. You're new here so I'll be the first to drop this on you... they aren't the only swingers in Nebraska. Dump them and move on.

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@purplefire - I checked out your profile and saw you guys just started on here earlier this month, so I'm guessing you are fairly new to this lifestyle? (us, too.) Ehhh....we all make mistakes and say/write/do stupid things in the beginning.

You know what? I would take a look back at what you did/said, think about how you are going to handle a similar situation next time around.....and move on. Hindsight is always 20/20. Don't beat yourselves up too much, ok?

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Dating 101, Swinger Version.

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TOPIC: Wow, I feel like an ass!!!
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