Wow, I feel like an ass!!!: Swingers Discussion 209148

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Wow, I feel like an ass!!!: Swingers Discussion 209148

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TOPIC: Wow, I feel like an ass!!!

Created by: PurpleFire	The original post for this thread was deleted.

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User Details are only visible to members.	PurpleFire; "Experience is just how many mistakes you've made that you actually learned something from". It's nice that the other couple responded to you with a 'hakuna metata'. It sounds like you've found some keepers, even if you and they never play. Finding your comfort zones is important and it appears that you're doing all the right things. You hit it on the head when you commented that you need to be careful what you hit the Send button on, as it's So Easy to inadvertantly write something that could be viewed as insensitive or rude and Impossible to "un-send" once you hit that button. We wish you both well! :-)
Fairview Heights IL			Username hidden (634 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	WTF is the "issue"?
Avondale LA			Username hidden (4496 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	First off, if there is an "issue" you should not be setting up any dates, play or otherwise. Second, don't offer reasons, excuses, or apologies for your decisions. Third, watch out for "mentors" that prey on nubies and try to lure them out of their comfort zone or suggest things they're not ready for. If you told them the truth they shouldn't be offended so it's not anything to lose sleep over. You're new here so I'll be the first to drop this on you... they aren't the only swingers in Nebraska. Dump them and move on.
Virginia Beach VA			Username hidden (269 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	@purplefire - I checked out your profile and saw you guys just started on here earlier this month, so I'm guessing you are fairly new to this lifestyle? (us, too.) Ehhh....we all make mistakes and say/write/do stupid things in the beginning. You know what? I would take a look back at what you did/said, think about how you are going to handle a similar situation next time around.....and move on. Hindsight is always 20/20. Don't beat yourselves up too much, ok?
Wailuku HI			Username hidden (440 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Dating 101, Swinger Version.
Avondale LA			Username hidden (4496 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Well, of course I don't know what the issue is, but I do know, if they block you, you would not be able to see their profile. You have your block list on the "friends" page, bottom center of the screen. You can see who you have blocked and who blocked you. On the issue, if you feel you should send an apology, just do so... Of course, be prepared to perhaps receive a bitter response, or a block. Do not be surprised if the couple breaks off any ties to you. Life happens. Even though they may respond positively, will you feel the same after this apparent faux pas? Will you believe them that they did not get offended, if they tell you so? Or will you have those second thoughts? You sent that unfortunate e-mail, and now no response. It might be your response. The couple might try to tell you it's over. In this case, no response is probably the most polite way to end an acquaintance. Chalk it up as a very learning (hopefully) lifestyle experience... And move on.
Panama City Beach FL			Username hidden (1934 post)

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TOPIC: Wow, I feel like an ass!!!