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TOPIC: Wife is only here for husband
Created by: Naughtynnice5557
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We need some advice---it's been 2 couples in a row and hubby is all salivating over my girl but his wife blurts out "I'm only doing this for him". What's up with that?
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We had one guy tell us his wife wasn't really into it, but not to worry, he'd just get her drunk and she'd go along with it. Needless to say, we didn't go any further with that. I did feel bad for her, that her hubby had so little respect for her, but what can you do? I agree with everyone else, RUN!
Portsmouth VA
 
 
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"run" ...I agree. I do not care if he is all into me and I into him. Any wife who is here solely for her hubby can not be trusted to behave appropriately or react with kindness and good will while her husband plays with me. I also would never subject Mr Sav to any alone time with such a women. My sexual desire would immediately be smashed if I sensed she wasn't completely on board and I am not so selfish that I'd allow hormones and desire to put Mr Sav in an awkward position.
Yup ! We're that horrid couple who has agreed either we are all on board or we jump ship.

Mrs Sav
Weaver AL
 
 
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Advice ? RUN as fast as you can from this couple where wife is doing it for "him" ... lots of potential for drama and lots of trouble as well
Belmont MI
 
 
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LOL JackD! Maybe a quick game of gin rummy while we listen to the moaning;)
Tempe AZ
 
 
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Would this be an instance of "taking one for the team" in reverse?? Sitting it out while your spouse plays with their spouse? Perhaps chatting about sports team standings or gardening over their screams of ecstasy? :-)
Fairview Heights IL
 
 
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Uggghh...Disappointing, particularly if you were attracted to the wife.

While I can understand the urge to call a halt and go home, why interrupt the fun your partner's having? I enjoy the "voyeur" aspect of the LS along with the play, and don't see any reason for hurt feelings, particularly if your partner is having a blast. Personally, I'd just chalk it up to experience and move on. Call it a one and done, and move on.
Tempe AZ
 
 
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Sometimes it really takes something "going wrong" to figure out how to do things for the next time. We call those negative experiences, "learning experiences" and keep moving on. Good luck w/ the next couple:)
San Antonio TX
 
 
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Couldn't leave lol. Our home. My girl and I have decided that in future this happens everything stops.
Virginia Bch VA
 
 
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Found certs aren't reliable. One couple vetted another couple based on bean dip they brought to party WTF. Needless to say no more contact with this couple due to this. Shame cuz we seemed like good relationship was beginning. We are both highly sexual and sensuous people and want to meet and establish relationships with the same.
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When it was obvious the other woman was not interested in playing with you would have been the right time to pull the plug, grab your wife and leave. Sounds like a set up where the couple only wanted the play with your female half and they were hoping you'd sit out while they all had fun. You did check out their certs, right?
Virginia Beach VA
 
 
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