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TOPIC: When the unexpected-unwanted happens
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Your question is really too broad to have a specific answer. The unexpected is always going to happen, you can't script sexual play when others are involved. Communication is the key. If it was things you had both set clear limits on I think you need a chit chat again, if it was something you hadn't thought of or something you reacted differently than you expected use it as a learning tool to fine tune what you both are looking for. The lifestyle will test your communication skills and potentially your relationship. Unless you are on very firm footing and are willing to talk though the "lessons" I suggest a step back to re evaluate what you want, where you are going and if your relationship needs a tune up before the journey.

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We are pretty new to this lifestyle, Only been doing it for a few months. How do you deal, after the fact, when stuff has occurred involving your other half that you are not ok with?

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