When does interested become pushy: Swingers Discussion 2046031061

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When does interested become pushy: Swingers Discussion 2046031061

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TOPIC: When does 'interested' become 'pushy'

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User Details are only visible to members.	that's why I avoid the sane/sober ones
Dallas TX			Username hidden (2225 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	I proceed on the assumption no sane/sober woman wants to have sex with me, so I am pretty good at picking up any rare signal to the contrary.
Belle Chasse LA			Username hidden (8678 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	LOL@ Sweet. That was funny, we all wish that though don't we? @Jack, I'm glad you brought this up and I am hoping there are many more responses. Being new to this and having no experience as of yet, this is something that crosses my mind frequently. I honestly have no idea where the line is or where it even starts!!! So it will be great to have the veterans give some insight on this.
Cape Coral FL			Username hidden (26 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	No touch during conversation = No interest? It's just my general rule,but of course I could be wrong. It would be nice if they just walked up and said"hey,big boy,wanna fuck" but that's only happen once in the 25yrs we've been swinging.
Dallas TX			Username hidden (2225 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	No touch during conversation = No interest?
Fairview Heights IL			Username hidden (652 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	My general rule is. since ladies tend to be touchers, Ie the shoulder the arm ect,during conversation, i always wait for her to touch first,granted that doesn't mean the door has been opened for groping,but a return touch to the hand arm or waist. Its just a chess game with the lady always playing white.
Dallas TX			Username hidden (2225 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	I confess that I'm confused about where the line is between 'expressing interest' and 'being pushy'. I've always tried to be a gentleman in my behavior toward ladies, including expressing interest in getting better acquainted. Am I the only male on SLS who has problems deciding what's appropriate and what's over the line? Am I being overly sensitive in thinking that no touching at all is preferable to unwelcome touching? How can I tell whether touching would be welcome or not without trying? Or am I over-thinking the whole thing?? I'm sort of getting tired of being 'hands-off' at parties and being ignored by the ladies, or being 'hands-on' and getting pushed away. How 'bout it, ladies? Guys? Where's the line between expressing interest and being aggressive?
Fairview Heights IL			Username hidden (652 post)

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