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TOPIC: When does 'interested' become 'pushy'
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Just because someone doesnt touch you it doesnt mean there is no interest. It could be that they are shy. Yes shy people do exist in the LS.

Depending on the situation, some people only like to show affection toward others they are not married to at clubs or non public places. get them some place private and watch out!

Now if the person puts a grocery divider bar between the two of you, Yeah I am thinking they dont like your ass too much.

When a person says NO or not right now and y ou persist, this becomes pushy and you can lose a nut. Just sayin~

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** fans myself....

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I proceed on the assumption no sane/sober woman wants to have sex with me, so I am pretty good at picking up any rare signal to the contrary.

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LOL@ Sweet. That was funny, we all wish that though don't we?

@Jack, I'm glad you brought this up and I am hoping there are many more responses. Being new to this and having no experience as of yet, this is something that crosses my mind frequently. I honestly have no idea where the line is or where it even starts!!! So it will be great to have the veterans give some insight on this.

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No touch during conversation = No interest?


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I confess that I'm confused about where the line is between 'expressing interest' and 'being pushy'. I've always tried to be a gentleman in my behavior toward ladies, including expressing interest in getting better acquainted. Am I the only male on SLS who has problems deciding what's appropriate and what's over the line? Am I being overly sensitive in thinking that no touching at all is preferable to unwelcome touching? How can I tell whether touching would be welcome or not without trying? Or am I over-thinking the whole thing?? I'm sort of getting tired of being 'hands-off' at parties and being ignored by the ladies, or being 'hands-on' and getting pushed away.

How 'bout it, ladies? Guys? Where's the line between expressing interest and being aggressive?


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