When does interested become pushy: Swingers Discussion 2046031051

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TOPIC: When does 'interested' become 'pushy'

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User Details are only visible to members.	I'm sort of getting tired of being 'hands-off' at parties and being ignored by the ladies, or being 'hands-on' and getting pushed away. That statement tells me that you may be trying connect with women who are not interested. I mean being ignored or pushed away in a good indication that someone is not interested.
New Orleans LA			Username hidden (2197 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Oh yeah, how do you know when to touch...sorry got carried away remembering the way I connected with him last time. I give off VERY clear signals when I find someone hot. You will know, I swear. I will also know if he's not picking up my vibes thus most probably not for me. I need to connect with someone that can feel me, feel my energy, not someone that has to be told that I find him hot.
Colts Neck NJ			Username hidden (12285 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	LOL! what are you touching when you first start? I still remember the first time my wife got caressed at a club. The same guy finger banged her and then walked away. And she loved it! To each his or her own I guess. I'm not shy when it comes to a full swap or a swinging party, but it's different in the club. I always ask if I can touch and if I can, I start off rubbing the small of the back. That is like the spot on a lot o women.
Lawrenceville GA			Username hidden (16 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Yeah Rdy, Do come out here. The Inland Empire is the Swingers Mecca on the West Coast and Club FA is right in the middle of it. We'll take you there and have a great time. If you like Kink, Toluca Lake/ SilverLake are your places. Porn is in the San Fernando valley. It's a triangle of vice and no more than 50 miles in any direction. Right in the middle of all this? The largest concentration of churches and religious colleges in the U.S. LOL. Go Cali!
Covina CA			Username hidden (99 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	There is no mistaking my attraction for another in a situation where I find someone sexually attractive. I'm an eye kind of person. I also blush very easily. The most recent encounter was in a group setting, he was married, I locked eyes with him the minute that I saw him and he me. The teasing, flirting, the energy, the heat it was there, there was no ifs or buts about it, no one was confused about it, in fact the rest of the people around us melted into simple background noise. Our friends all sensed it, there was zero doubt about it. I don't know, things fell into place well. The sex was rough, it was raw, it was intense, and it seemed like I was in an orgasmic heaven the entire time. A four hour encounter seemed like five minutes! I'm not sure that I want to fuck him again though. I doubt that we can rekindle that heat again.
Colts Neck NJ			Username hidden (12285 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	I'm a middle of the road girl. I don't want to be "groped" by just anyone who has an interest. I think there are other ways of showing signs that your interested without first groping. But if I flirt for a few moments and show genuine interest and get no indication from the guy that he is interested I quickly lose interest. Confusing lol.
Louisville KY			Username hidden (14006 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Jack, Do what you are comfortable in doing, not what everyone else does. My wife gets groped by male friends in the lifestyle a lot (doesn't bother her or me, btw). However, I don't do that to their wives. I hug or put my hands on the small of their back if we are standing or clasp one of their hands in both of mine if we are talking to each other. If we've played, I may run my hand up and down her arm or thigh a few times but no molesting, of course. The golden rule still is in effect for me so I gauge interest by that rather than what I can get away with. However, there is one funny caveat that I discovered after talking with a few couples. A few wives were disappointed that I showed "zero interest" in them because I wasn't obtusely affectionate. They expected/wanted me to be more "primal" based on what they heard about black men (I'm 1/4 Sudanese, 1/4 Afro-Cuban, 1/4 Sicilian and 1/4 Native Am., a mutt in other words) and they thought I'd be slobbering all over them. When I tell them I am interested but I am respectful of them as a couple and therefore keep the slobbering to a minimum, they -sometimes- don't know what to make of it. So the moral is that perceptions and even stereotypes play a role in determining the line between interested and pushy.
Covina CA			Username hidden (99 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Ms. Rdy really makes me pissed off at myself for being a dumb ass fucking idiot again.
San Marcos TX			Username hidden (23665 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Just because someone doesnt touch you it doesnt mean there is no interest. It could be that they are shy. Yes shy people do exist in the LS. Depending on the situation, some people only like to show affection toward others they are not married to at clubs or non public places. get them some place private and watch out! Now if the person puts a grocery divider bar between the two of you, Yeah I am thinking they dont like your ass too much. When a person says NO or not right now and y ou persist, this becomes pushy and you can lose a nut. Just sayin~
Augusta NJ			Username hidden (16075 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	** fans myself....
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