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TOPIC: When does 'interested' become 'pushy'
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TY, Scandle...that was exactly the sort of response that I was hoping to get. Point taken and obviously I'm going to have to study up on my non-verbal language skills. Over the years I've learned to speak spanish, german, japanese, korean, and a little english...but never non-verbal. :-) Will have to work on that. (LOL)
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what Scandle said. ;)
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Jack,
Reading Mercy's description of what he does helped me define that is exactly what I like. A gentle touch on the hand or arm, a hand on the small of my back, as well as the look that indicates he finds me sexy. I don't like the bold and brazen approach of staring at my body parts incessantly or of fondling them uninvited. A look that indicates he likes what he sees, then primarily focusing on conversation will draw me in. If I am interested I melt into his space. If not, I step away. |
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90% of communication is non-verbal. You better know how to read cues or you're not getting anywhere.
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The Mrs has (several times) commented on other ladie's 'cues' and asked me later why I didn't do anything about it when I hadn't even noticed. I suspect that I'm not the only M in that boat. I've noticed that ladies seem to be much more aware of 'cues' than men are. I guess that just leaves me and other M's in the dust, then. (smile) Sort of a "you should just know!" sort of thing?
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If the guy isn't picking up on my cues, I'm not going for it. He's not for me.
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I guess the rephrased question (for the ladies) should be; if you're interested, but the guy isn't 'touching', how do you express that interest? I'm not a 'touchy' sort of guy, and the Mrs has told me that she hates guys who're always asking permission to touch/hold/fondle, so being a gentleman (non-aggressive, but not passive) and being in the LS don't seem to coexist in my mind.
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"Ms. Rdy really makes me pissed off at myself for being a dumb ass fucking idiot again. "
lmao! I think Mr. Rdy is gonna be a busy busy man next time! |
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It could have been worse, Sweet, he could have been chased away, with her running after him waving her 6" pump in the air!
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