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TOPIC: When does 'interested' become 'pushy'
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I was responding to the comment that "I would just ask before touching" even something less than the "good stuff." I can't imagine asking during casual conversation "Excuse me, but would it be okay if I touched your elbow or shoulder." I wouldn't be interested in a woman who wouldn't think it odd for a man to be so stilted.
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Nothing to worry about there, kd.
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Yes they do!
As a matter of fact , when I met Mr She at a party ( before we started going out) he had walked up behind me and touched the small of my back .... mmmm I still remember it as if it was yesterday |
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kd, i think that is very good advice. I go to vanilla bars and guys touch the top of your back or arm when they talk to you.
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If you don't pick up on my cues, don't touch me anywhere, period!
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Doesnt it matter where you might be touching a woman?
If a man was a little touchy feely to me on my arm or my back, do you really have to ask to do that? I dont think so. And if thats your way to show someone you're interested, it would work for me. Now with that said, dont touch me anywhere else if I dont know you. |
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I have no idea how to ask a woman for permission to casually touch her. And most woman I know, if a man asked permission to touch her arm or shoulder, would either laugh out loud or ask WTF.
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im with what scandle said too
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When does 'interested' become 'pushy'
When the other person isn't interested. |
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I would just ask before touching. That way you don't get into trouble. I'm willing to bet if you ask respectfully you'll get a lot of positive responses.
Now if a woman starts the touching first, I'd go ahead and touch back. But I wouldn't touch the good stuff (T&A&P) unless the signs are REALLY clear (like she is grabbing your ass). |
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