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LMAO @ Sexus!! I see that look all the time...even from the wife!!!

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exactly.

If I look at you like this to the left, it's a no.

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lol, just dont be a creeper. You dont want to be that guy LOL. You will just know. If she invites you in with her eyes or a smile, she wants you. If she looks at you like you are from another planet or, even worse, rolls her eyes and moves away......just walk away. You will get a vibe from her. Just pay attention. If you do not think she is interested, she probably isn't.

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a "no" can also mean a "not right now." That is something you could ask. "mind if I talk to you again later in the night?"

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Some great advice in the thread, you'll also find if you search the Threesome Forum Section some excellent threads. For us once you express interest and make your intriduction and we initial conversation, all you need to do is wait and watch for the right signals. K likes to dance, but if she turns you down - that's a signal. If she invites you to sit, that's a signal. If you never get another look, that's a signal. Give the couples some space even if things seem okay, it'll be appreciated. We may not look for a single guy until end of party, so have some party staying power as well. Err on the side of not being pushy, you'll make friends and get opportunities.

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Great advice in this thread. There are plenty of ladies here I would gladly tell what I would do with them.

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I wouldn't respond well to a man who asked permission either. BUT I do respond well to one who confidently says, "I really want to kiss you right now." Especially if we've been making eye contact, serious eye contact, and flirting and you already know you are attracted to each other. Sometime smolders inside you.

Anytime that type man (one where the attraction is already evident) says what we wants to do to me, or with me, or just what he is GOING to do to me, I will respond positively.

No whiny wussy men. Ugh.

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You know what Lost? Guys like that get their thrills off of making you uncomfortable. I see them at every party and at every bar and club. They usually have to be escorted out because they lack self control. Serious sociopathic issues there.

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I love a man who can read body language! ;-)

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yeah, he was something. We are going back tonight, I'm hoping he chooses a new bar. It was the first time I have ever seen him. All of the girls were like seriously, go away!!! I just dont get how a guy really thinks he is going to get laid that way. Like a woman will say omg you have bothered me so much here's the pussy, just leave me alone hhahahaha

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