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TOPIC: Whatever happened to good ole' fashioned common courtesy!!
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The most discourteous is when they initiate first contact and you respond positively, open pics, etc and then nothing. Not even a "Sorry, but, no thanks". Why bother in the first place if you can't even say yes or no once you receive opened pics and a response back to YOUR initial contact.

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Being HER is from the west coast and Him from the east SLS seems a harder place to get to know people than wc sites...i find more flakes her than in Los Angeles and as a previous LAer I take pride in our flakiness( to a point). WE always respond...You may not like it but we try and be nice. When we email people, it is more than just one sentence and it is always HER that emails. We are on time, do not flake...just rude...and the girls make the rules ;)

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"Common courtesy" is an oxymoron. Courtesy is anything BUT common!

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Sorry for your bad experiences as well WannaTry, but take heart in the fact that you got further than we do most of the time. we just don't understand how people can create an account here, go the extra step of corresponding and trying to get to know you but not want to at least meet in person?

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Wanna - sorry for your "flake" experiences...with that new photo, I can't even imagine...Their loss I tell you!

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Oh gosh...we are going thru this *right now*!! We had 2 meets set up and both flaked out by suddenly not responding to emails/texts. One of them, in mid conversation!!

Getting REALLY tired of flakey people.

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Thanks for chiming in MM40! Used to be consideration/politeness were the norm rather than the exception, now it seems to be the other way around. I can count the number of thoughtful, considerate e-mails we get per year on one hand versus the number of e-mail we send out if only to say "nice profile, wish we lived closer"!

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Twonluv69 hit this one on the head. As a single male looking for others in the lifestyle to enjoy pleasurable times with I have found that by being kind, considerate and respectful of others has gotten me a lot more return e-mails. Not to mention more meets. A simple please and thank you go a long way when messaging others. It doesn't take much more time to actually type out a meaningful message versus the "Shes hot, lets hook up" type message. Nothing wrong with a little good ole fashioned common courtesy. Thank you for allowing me to comment on this subject.

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When we first started meeting folks @ lifestyle parties they seemed like the most considerate, down-to-earth folks you'd ever want to meet. Maybe it's the disconnect of technology (smart phones, computers, etc.) but it seems (at least on-line) that folks aren't as considerate anymore. Nobody actually reads your profile and the few that do contact you can't muster more than a single sentence! We believe in giving folks the benefit of the doubt, extending common courtesies (thank you/no thank you, etc.) and most importantly will e-mail a profile (with more than one sentence) to say "Hey, we liked your profile not just the pictures". But yet we RARELY receive so much as a "Thank You" for something as simple as a compliment. Are we wrong for complimenting folks we live too far away to meet with? Just imagine what this site would be like if more folks were just a little bit more considerate...

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