When I'm done, I try REALLY hard not to roll over and start snoring!

LOL

Jim

And this is why so many adore you, G.

:)

There are so many times when we just have to laugh, about ourselves, about the situations, positions, pairings, groupings, things we try that don't "work," etc. I am so turned on by humor, and yes, it's subjective. I can go from intelligent satire and sarcasm and word plays, to silliness, depending on the situations. If you can make me genuinely laugh, then you've got me. If you can, when you are "done," say the line, "now what?" and laugh, I think you have a good attitude going for you. Now, when you're done and you end up on the couch watching Mr. Bean episodes on DVD, then, well, okay, so we're lunatics. It worked for us when it happened.

" The one piece of advice I'd have for any newbie to the lifestyle is that if you don't have a sense of humor you're screwed........just not the way you'd hope you'd be. "
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Omg, I so agree. I cannot tell you how hard it has been to find both in a couple to have a freakin sense of humor! I'm starting to lose mine about it,
...and that's never good!! (...so says my husband, lol) ;-0

.LOL. Ok not funny but FUNNY in a scary sorta way lol. The potential for drama is never ending, just when you think you've checked your list and checked it twice, screened others like you're the FBI shit just pops out of nowhere. There just is no second guessing human nature or reaction. The one piece of advice I'd have for any newbie to the lifestyle is that if you don't have a sense of humor you're screwed........just not the way you'd hope you'd be. Lets face it sex is funny, people are goofy and people say and do the darnest things. We just laugh , sometimes with them, sometimes at them...it's all good. If we're laughing we're having fun. Mrs Sav

"I reach over and grab Mr Sav by the balls and scream" You've had enough ....... Get the fuck off her, I'm done. We're leaving " ;) "

Mrs Sav,

I swear I've seen something close to this. LOL. Just add the specter of the wife tossing a towel over the head of hubby and stating 'go wash your ass'. True story. LOL

LOL

i fucking knew it! i fucking knew it! ;)

I reach over and grab Mr Sav by the balls and scream" You've had enough ....... Get the fuck off her, I'm done. We're leaving " ;)

Mrs Sav

I wash up, either showering when possible, or using a washcloth. More so if I don't know the people that I am with all that well, if at all. It wouldn't be anything personal, but it does reduce risk should someone not know that they are carrying something.