Whats wrong with us: Swingers Discussion 2032041081

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User Details are only visible to members.	Some people will tell you that you are attractive; almost nobody will ever freely offer their honest opinion that they don't find you attractive. The black clothing (in all your pics), the skull on the cellphone, the rivets in your faces: I personally don't know who would find these attractive. I'm trying to be honest and blunt here. Probably there is a Goth gathering or a Halloween party where you'd be a perfect fit. Everyone has flaws, but most people don't try and create more of them. At first glance, this just looks like self-degradation. Self respect, and the appearance thereof, goes a long way toward creating a positive public image. Sorry if this seems too blunt or callous, it's just one set of impressions.
Flat Rock NC			Username hidden (2826 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	There is a million reasons why you could be being ignored. Personally, I think body language is big. I won't approach anyone if they aren't giving off a friendly, talk-to-me, vibe. Making eye contact with people can usually spark a response. I can pick up a woman from across the bar lots of times, at the regular bars, with just a look. And I really don't consider myself great looking. It's all in HOW you look at them. Confidence is attractive, arrogance is not. My wife and I go out and we get tons of looks, because we walk around the bar like we own it. We don't give a rats ass what anyone thinks because we have each other. This gives us a confidence and a glow that attracts people. Lots of people are generally shy. When you are at parties, do you just stand on the sidelines and watch? You always need to make yourself approachable.
Grand Blanc MI			Username hidden (143 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	K....I am like y'all. I am not one who is an extrovert unless I am comfortable. New people...it takes me a bit to warm up. And I totally miss subtle. People do not want to be intrusive. It is not that they are rude or snobby, they are just shy like you are. Remember, if everyone in a room is shy, who talks to who? And then people say it was a boring party. There is NO harm in walking up to anyone, whether or not you want to fuck them....smiling and saying hello! I am ----, what a pleasure to meet you! When I do that you see this almost look of relief on their face...and then they smile! Smiles are contagious....so is laughter and happiness. Emotions are contagious. Just like misery loves company......so does happiness :0).
San Marcos TX			Username hidden (23661 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	I have had the same issue. I figured out ti is because I stay stuck up my husbands ass if no one else is talking to me. Most people wont approach a couple because they either A) know you are together and assume you are not ready to mingle/play. or B) they dont know you are together and dont want to "cock-block".I know it can be daunting being in a new environment with people who seem to all know one another, but trust me, make conversation with just one person,even if its bogus( oh, hey i like your t-shirt,,Im lost again, which way to the bathroom?) and your luck will improve.
Church Road VA			Username hidden (16 post)

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