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User Details are only visible to members.	I have tried to tell you by relating our experiences, but your not getting it.
Dallas TX			Username hidden (2225 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	You spelled and wrong in your profile name.
Avondale LA			Username hidden (4496 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Thanks kinddragon and totalbabe! ive been lurking for a while now but I do want to be more active on the forums... We just dont have a chance to get on every day :/ And with my earlier comment i didnt mean to not portray who you are. If you like dark tones and tend toward gothic clothing then by all means show that in your pictures! Sure it will turn some people off but in all honesty those are the people you probably wouldnt click with if you met anyway. There are all types out there and there are people looking for all types. I was talking about the overall tone of the profile. Mr. B
Biloxi MS			Username hidden (6 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Thank you rdy, that was sweet. All I'm saying is people should be willing to give us a chance without judging us by our appearance alone. Is that an unreasonable expectation? It would be nice if it was that way.But for the majority of people this lifestyle is about looks and can be quite exclusive. The wife and I have ask each other the same question that the OP is asking, and I always love the answers my wife comes up with. Like,"it's because all the women only want other women or they just want to play with the young studs" or "it's because nobody plays anymore and the lifestyle has become nothing more than a social club" Well we all know that's not the reason we can't find compatible playmates.
Dallas TX			Username hidden (2225 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	OP's....I was reading your new marquee last nite, and scratching my head ...meet at the Y? I'm thinking, why the YMCA they have public swimming pools and stuff but a meet and greet there seems odd.,,,I'm feeling pretty old this morning. Then it hit me DUH,,, Y whoee You kids in your slang.....lol...I work online and the Y boggs my system down so I quit using the chat feature long ago. Hope you got a chunkle out of my Duhness, and also you get what your looking for down the road. P.S. I hope anyone reading this gets ear wormed with YMCA, we can have fun at the YMCA...lol
Atlanta GA			Username hidden (2136 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	KC, i think you've received many different honest and wonderful oipinions here, have any of the responses here helped you see anything differently? ...just wondering. btw... in case you didnt know, sometimes submit hesitates and we click on it again, usually not needing to. you can delete your extra posts right at the bottom of each post.
Kunkletown PA			Username hidden (2999 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	"Sometimes, once we start communicating about everything under the sun, I don't think of them as a sex partner anymore. I see the relationship differently then." Yup what she said lol. I have no sexual attraction to my good friends and we have found that the better friends we become with playmates the less we want to play want to play with them. We aren't here for "steady" or "comfortable" or "predictable" . I really do not want to know all your little secret spots and pleasures. I like surprises !!!! We like the excitement of "the first time" after that I'm sorta like YAWN "been there done that "( even if it was INCREDIBLE lol) Others have a much different nature. For instance some couples visit the same resort year after year, camp in the same spot every summer , they like knowing they had a good time there and rather than risk some place new they return again and again to whats familiar. I am the complete opposite , I will never chose to stay at the same resort or even same area, the world is huge and I want to see and experience it all. We view the lifestyle the same way, each time we venture out we meet new people, experience new things . We always have a great time , even when the people we meet might fall short of our "hopes" . I personally am not into trying to recreate great memories . I am more anxious to create new ones. Thankfully the LS provides all kinds of people, each looking for something different . Find your niche and relax and enjoy. When you start over thinking it or ask too many questions that have no answers it will cease to be fun. Mrs Sav
Weaver AL			Username hidden (4448 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Sexus, That's easy to say when you are marred to a hwp man. I just went through 10 pages of profiles and 19 out of the 20 read we are hwp and fit and expect the same. the funny part was that maybe half of those the male was hwp the female was not but yet they both only wanted to meet hwp in shape people. For some reason it's ok for a women to be 20 to 30lbs overweight but not for a man.
Dallas TX			Username hidden (2225 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	very cute KC! ;)
Kunkletown PA			Username hidden (2999 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	sweetart, I'm thinking that has more to do with your liking yourself, ie confidence, that it does with actual numbers. When my weight is up, I feel like ugh, and my clothes aren't comfortable, etc. That comes across to others as well, and if you don't feel attractive, you won't be attractive. Attraction comes in all sizes, so keep wearing what you like, do what makes you feel good, and don't worry so much about numbers. Just keep having fun. The emails come and go in spurts (awful pun), and maybe it's coincidental that you think they're not there when your weight goes up a few pounds? Nothing is wrong, this is a fickle entertainment. But I will agree that negatives put people off, so read your profiles out loud and see how many times you, anyone, write the words never, always, not, no, or anything taken as whining or complaining, Why aren't there? etc.
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