Whats wrong with us: Swingers Discussion 2032041051

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TOPIC: What's wrong with us

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User Details are only visible to members.	I have never even looked at how many views our profile has had...
Kunkletown PA			Username hidden (2981 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	"Since making the recommended changes to our profile we have noticed an increase in the number of views." It could be the increase in the number of views reflects people who have read this thread and wanted to check out what people were talking about.
Sheboygan Falls WI			Username hidden (6956 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	KC, I would suggest you remove the whole first red sentence. Including the lol. It's not effective, it starts off your profile with a negative (anything in red indicates some sort of warning, even if it's unintentional). What you say in your profile says it for you, as you state again in the profile about 'real" people, whatever that means. Also, your tagline could use a change. You already write about the Y and finding you there later on in your profile. Don't need it as a tagline. People are looking at profiles here, on sls, not thinking about msging on Y. I know it may seem silly, but those are the things that make people just sort of pass on by. Pics are great. Otherwise, profile is fine too. Just those few hints. take or leave, as this needs to be your own thing. Gina
San Antonio TX			Username hidden (6029 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	I dont worry that collectors will get pics of my pussy. Other than my gyn...I dont know that someone will look at a pic and say holy fuck...thats shelly's pussy! Honey, come look at this. Is this Shelly? Why yes, it is!
San Marcos TX			Username hidden (23645 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Akron, if they had, then people would read it as K Can da Doc, or K Can(a)da Doc, or some other way that is just wrong for them.
Sheboygan Falls WI			Username hidden (6956 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Okay. Most just use 'and'.
Avondale LA			Username hidden (4496 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Sneak a picture of your vagina past the photo Nazis if you can. That will garner lots of attention.
Avondale LA			Username hidden (4496 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	My thoughts, when looking at local profiles, if I read it two days ago, I will say to myself that I already read it, and go to the next one. Dave's thoughts- a new picture is something to draw someone in to look. As KD said, patience is a virtue, and get out to M&Gs once in awhile.
Quakertown PA			Username hidden (1831 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	"So, why is it we still seem to plenty of profile views and zero messages? " The answer is pretty simple really. Everyone has access to your profile, from coast to coast. Many many men(people) scan profiles to view photos ONLY. They don't live close to you, have zero interest in you (or anyone else) and are just site seeing ! Be pro active, contact others, go out and meet people and stop worrying why others are not contacting you. Use SLS as a starting point to familiarize yourself with others preferences and desires and don't rely on it as a way to meet others. I think your expectations of media connections is far too high. If you get 2 qualities emails a month your farther head than many here. Most people use this site as a leap board into socialization not as an end all to hook up. I suggest you skip the whole chatting extensively, dozen of emails back and forth and texting. If you are interested in meeting someone make arrangements to meet PERIOD. You only waste time by investing in the whole"lets get to know each other " via writing word. Chances are upon meeting them they will be nothing like you envisioned anyway or there will be no sexual attraction. We have found the more time you waste playing the email game the less chance you will actually meet them. Go out and meet new people and even than keep your expectations of a hook up low. Have fun with each other and naturally fun will find you. BTW the BOLD TEXT message at the bottom of your profile is still a turn off, people will respond if they like and adding that message serves no purpose at all. If you feel you need to state that your respond to all emails a simple" We respond to all emails" is enough. You can ASK and INSIST all you like but the fact remains many of your emails will go unanswered........just the nature of the beast. Mrs Sav
Weaver AL			Username hidden (4055 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	KC, I've heard some people have never met anyone through sls, ....but instead of sitting there waiting for the bird, why not just approach couples yourselves and go out more to M&G's and start forming friendships here and there, ...and see where that takes you. For us, the people we have liked the most are people we have found ourselves. And patience is a virtue around here... were you expecting a flood of emails as soon as you changed your tag line? ...breathe woman! :) I'm not sure how many people get floods of emails by other couples on a daily basis anyway....
Kunkletown PA			Username hidden (2981 post)

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