Whats the opinion on taking one for the team: Swingers Discussion 41691

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TOPIC: What's the opinion on taking one for the team

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User Details are only visible to members.	Careful Scorp.... as LW (who recently just finished the book) warned others.... she had to stop reading it outloud at the breakfast table because people kept spitting out their coffee on the breakfast rolls... snicker snicker
Mountain Ranch CA			Username hidden (8750 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Thank you, Mr. C for your lovely comments!! I actually have been throwing around the idea of my second book being "Swinging in to the Golden Years" but I haven't done enough research in that area yet.... you would be a definite candidate!! Feel free to email me anytime!
Mountain Ranch CA			Username hidden (8750 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Ms. Scorp, you are wise beyond your years -- and a fox to boot (oh to be 50 again!). Simbaxxx -- H and I bought and both finished your book. Lots of illuminating insights, not the least of which was the "friends first" baloney which you debunk. We have always felt that way. If you are thinking about a 2nd edition, or updated version sometime, I have some ideas for a couple of topics you might add or expand on. (oh, and in the interest of balance, you are a fox too, Simba). You go, girls... Mr. C
Charlotte NC			Username hidden (546 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Exactly Scorp!!! I couldn't have said it better myself! As long as I am playing with my Honey..... I'm having fun. Period. Thats the payoff because there is no other male or female that can come even close to giving a big payoff - so I don't seek others to fill that need or desire....because they can't. As far as Mr. Sim doing one for the team....there is no such thing and it could never happen because there is no such thing as a bad fuck to him. Mr. Gemini will find something interesting and fun in any female. There are only 3 types of females made..... good, better and best and he enjoys some aspects of all women in all shapes, sizes and looks. He has a very Zen attitude towards it I've never met anyone so promiscuous as he is and has such a positive outlook towards all.
Mountain Ranch CA			Username hidden (8750 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	I would never under any circumstances want to think that the woman I love most in the whole world would submit to having sex with someone she didn't want to have sex with just so I could fuck somebody I liked. My wife comes first. I'll pass up ANYBODY rather than have her fuck somebody that she really wasn't interested in fucking. I would feel terrible if I discovered she had done that. Jim
South Riding VA			Username hidden (8165 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	It still goes back to what degree of attraction. Everyone compromises in who they play with if you view your spouse as the best. So, it all depends on how much or how little compromising one is willing to do to play with others - because you do have to compromise. So, if you are always compromising then "doing one for the team" is also a continuation of what you are already doing..... it just happens to be some people are more willing to compromise if the payoff happens to be in another area instead of the expected area. Yes, theres always a payoff even if you do one for the team. It's just all in perspective as to what you view as payoff.
Mountain Ranch CA			Username hidden (8750 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	"So if we don't both feel attraction to 100% of the couples we play with, then we don't play. Period. " Well there you go - there is the difference. I'm ONLY 100% attracted to Mr. Sim and everyone else falls short of that (actually not even close). So you would say I compromise on all play partners and it just varies as to what degree.
Mountain Ranch CA			Username hidden (8750 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	I think you missed an important word in my original post... the word "repulsed". No, I read your post, understood your opinion. :)
Spring TX			Username hidden (1865 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	I think you missed an important word in my original post... the word "repulsed". The only pity fucks in my book would be with people that repulsed me .....and that would never happen. There are varying degrees of attraction with other people and a person I deem as "so so " would not be anywhere close to a pity fuck and the flip side.... the wife would be hot hot hot.. so she wouldn't just be any fuck but a 12 on a scale of 10 so I think thats a cool gift since rarely do we encounter someone that we would deen a 12 on a scale of 10....those are rare gems indeed.
Mountain Ranch CA			Username hidden (8750 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	I wouldnt consider it a gift to pity fuck someone so my sig other could have some pussy. ROFL.. but that is something I have never read before!! Got to love these forums for all the interesting things you learn!
Spring TX			Username hidden (1865 post)

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