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TOPIC: User Certifications
Created by: GrantandDianne
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I'm just curious whether anyone really pays attention to the Certs from other members? I happen to know one member who lied when Certifying some people and only "certed" them because the other person bugged them to do it. Their response was "what was I supposed to say...she was a terrible in bed and her breath smelled like cigarettes?"

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onthegass, you can see the aforementioned smokin' hot little ass by simply searching the screen name. they were kind enough to have it as their opening profile pic.

and i get where you're your coming from on certs... we didn't accept certs for the first couple of years we were in the lifestyle as we felt it was a privacy issue. then we realized that many people are looking to verify that we are a real couple and decided to take a few. we usually never carry more than three or four at any one time.

as with anything else in the LS, the usefulness of certs depends on honesty. that should tell you all you need to know about how much you should rely on them. for us, they serve two purposes. 1. we can reasonably assume they are for real. 2. we can sometimes get an idea of the kind of people they are attracted to and seem to click with.

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Erica, there was a very hot-looking beach girl who joined the discussion and said some very sensible things, but then took it personally when someone disagreed with something they said. People have deleted so many of their posts that the convo no longer makes sense. I don't remember the beach couple saying anything off the wall at all; just sensitive to disagreement. I hope they realize it's just a message board, nothing personal, and that they come back sometime.

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Damn. I missed the good stuff. What stupid shit were my peers suggesting this time? :-)

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As long as they are honest.

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Discussion forums are worthless if there is not a diversity of thoughts, viewpoints, and experiences. I agreed with some of their points, and disagreed with others. Regardless, they added to the discussion and I hope they come back.

Disclaimer: I had difficulty concentrating on the substance of their statements, due to the distraction of Mrs. LoveTheBeach25's cute ass in the blue bikini.

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It's not original. I heard it at a sex conference several years ago.

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Wo, that's bizarre! lovethebeach25 deleted all of their posts in this thread. And I thought we were all being nice! They actually had some interesting things to say from their 20-something perspective, though I disagreed. To the young it seems that sex is an emergency.

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Sweating.

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I would take a trusted friend's opinion about someone from the site over a certification.

Can you elaborate on the bang objective Seduction?

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Everyone has different feelings about giving and accepting certs, how much weight to give them, and how they feel about privacy. One of my favorite couples has deleted all of the certs given them (as well as their pics) once they found the circle of playmates that interested them. 

I take un-certed couples with a grain of salt; but also take certs that way too. Mainly, certs are just one factor in deciding whether the couple is real, so that I don't waste time setting up a meeting with fakes. That said, a couple with multiple certs once stood me up, and although they contacted me an hour later with a lame explanation, I have declined all of their subsequent invitations. Other newbie couples, with no certs, have been as real as they come. So you never can tell . . . . 

I will cert a couple to verify the accuracy of their profile; if they want a more explicit cert I will write one, but I try not to embellish. I discourage couples from certing me unless we have had more than one meeting, and I decline them if they don't add something not already said in a previous cert. I've written many more than I've accepted. 

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TOPIC: User Certifications