Transitioning from Soft to Full Swap: Swingers Discussion 2011891021

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Transitioning from Soft to Full Swap: Swingers Discussion 2011891021

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TOPIC: Transitioning from Soft to Full Swap

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User Details are only visible to members.	Sweet "Its just that everyone wants to rush to the destination, we are at this point of our lives more interested in the ride." I agree with you too! If everyone is vibing and it leads to sex GREAT! But we played with a couple that during oral I was bored and that to me meant not "fuckable". If your oral sucks I really don't care to bend over and let you ram me either.
W Hempstead NY			Username hidden (486 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	She- "As long as everyone has been honest with pics , and no one turns out to be an ass at the meet, we're probably going to be fine for play." YES I agree. We try to get to know the couple a little before meeting. So when the show up if they look like they represent themselves here than its usually a sure thing. My husband knows how to read me pretty good too. We don't even have a "code" . He knows through my body language if its a go.
W Hempstead NY			Username hidden (486 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	She, we don't have an issue with full swap, been doing it for 24yrs, Its just that everyone wants to rush to the destination, we are at this point of our lives more interested in the ride.If we get to the fucking fine, if everyone is worn out and satisfied from the ride that's fine also. Like an other poster says all the time, there is no one out there hot enough to change how you enjoy playing
New Orleans LA			Username hidden (2189 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	A lot of couple put full swap with the right couple or when we are comfortable. The bottom line is to be who you are and hold out for what you are looking for. waiting for the right couple is always better than buffet style swinging, something we learn the hard way over time.
New Orleans LA			Username hidden (2189 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	We keep it simple. The problem with "soft swap... with an option" is that no one knows this unless you explain it in the profle. But putting it in the profile defeats the purpose. We do not contact anyone who is not listed as full swap. If a moderate couple contacts us, we make sure they have read the profile before going any further. If I am not interested in fucking you, I'm not interested in going down on you either. Our profile makes it clear: we don't ask anyone to commit to play prior to meeting us, but if play does happen, everyone needs to be comfortable with full swap. We're not in the lifestyle for oral sex or watching someone else have sex. Some are, and that's fine. This also works well for us because we try to do our best to be relatively certain that we are a good match before we ever even agree to meet. As long as everyone has been honest with pics , and no one turns out to be an ass at the meet, we're probably going to be fine for play.
Port Canaveral FL			Username hidden (3472 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	That's it we are soft with an option to full but if I put it on my profile I feel we will be expected to full and if I don't a lot couples ignore us. We have actually been blocked for being soft swap.
W Hempstead NY			Username hidden (486 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	We have been considering switching from full swap to soft swap with an option to full swap,We are discovering that there is just so much more to sexual pleasure than fucking.my wife loves doing prostate play and gets off more pushing a guy over the edge than a good pounding any day, ad when she done with a man he usually useless for a day or 2. and we also enjoy seeing just how many orgasms we can get out of a women while pushing her over the edge.
New Orleans LA			Username hidden (2189 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	I think you'd be fine to say that you are primarily soft swap. We enjoy soft swap most of the time, but on a few occasions we've gone farther. That said, we discovered that condoms at 40 aren't a lot of fun, but the alternative isn't an option either. Soft swap lets us have the fun without the nuisance. We have found that the pressure to full swap is less when we are open with the other couple. communication is key. Hope this helps a little.
Westerville OH			Username hidden (9 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	"To me soft swap means doing some or everything with the other male, without intercourse." Yes we do everything and most the time I will have intercourse with my husband to finish off and the other couple will do the same, with touching and kissing etc., But we have had a full swap experience in the same room on the same bed. We liked it very much but like I said I can't always says that with every couple I will want to have sex with the other male. So I would like to have more options because as a "moderate" couple many pass us by but if I put that we are "wild" I feel that they will expect sex as a definite. Gosh I am a complicated woman what can I say lol
W Hempstead NY			Username hidden (486 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	" We love playing soft swap, which for us is everything but sex swapping. " ---- Seems to be soft swap means different things to many. Does soft swap mean to you that you do 'everything with only your husband' ...in the presence of another couple?? To me soft swap means doing some or everything with the other male, without intercourse. Having sex with my husband in front of another couple while they are having sex just doesn't fit the swapping word for me at all. I call it simo-sex. lol.
Kunkletown PA			Username hidden (2981 post)

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