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TOPIC: Transitioning from Soft to Full Swap
Created by: BriJam
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We love playing soft swap, which for us is everything but sex swapping. We have actually full swapped in separate rooms and recently in the same room. The couple was fantastic and sexy and we love it too! This may sound crazy but not everyone we meet, I (the wife) find "fuckable" doesn't mean I won't soft swap with them though. I am hesitant to change our profile to "wild" just because I like to go with the flow and not be expected to full swap. Does anyone else play this way? Opinions, ideas???
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explanation: I/We do read all the profiles, just don't always notice the ratings thing where it says Mild/Wild, etc. at first. If we need clarification, we look at that, and if we need more clarification, we simply ask.

Hope that clears up a misunderstanding that we don't read profiles. Look at ours...why would we not read them if we are to write one that we hope is read?
San Antonio TX
 
 
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I do not know why people feel this pressure to go from soft swap to full, as if they are incomplete unless they do full.
San Marcos TX
 
 
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"The "unswap"? K looks at me, flops that noodle back and forth in her hand a time or two, and I say, "Ok. Unswap"! And if I get busy and miss that look from k... I'm driving home with my nuts tied in a knot. :/ "

ok, that right there is funny...think I am heading over to the Rock Band name thread
Pottstown PA
 
 
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Port Canaveral FL
 
 
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"have you ever "unswapped" during play? yes ma'am. unfortunately we are no strangers to the mid-coitus unswap. :/
Port Canaveral FL
 
 
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It's because they look at the pics and forget how to read, happens all the time.
New Orleans LA
 
 
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Well I most of the rude full swappers contacted us. After reading their profile I tod them we were soft swap then we get the bad comments. Hey it's their loss as far as I am concerned. I can't tell you how many times that I email couples back that are looking for in shape couples that we are in the round shape lol
W Hempstead NY
 
 
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See just got one from a single male who for one is to skinny,then he goes on about how much he works out, how big his dick is and that her can go for hours, Everything that our profile states turn Deb off
New Orleans LA
 
 
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New Orleans LA
 
 
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I read it all the time. As a soft swapper or "moderate" couple we have been turn down, told off, blocked and the list goes on and on. One profile actually says soft swappers should not be able to have an account here and we should go play with ourselves to figure out with our problem is....hmmm That is why we go into get detail in our profile as to what our soft swap consists of, I think our soft swap sometimes is wilder than some of the full swappers we have met.
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TOPIC: Transitioning from Soft to Full Swap