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Expect it to be just like porn.

White Hse Sta NJ
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since the post says "entering the lifestyle," may I suggest putting "lifestyle" in perspective and do not make it your number one priority. Keep it a fun side "thing."

You'll invariably meet great friends. You'll also meet people you won't even want to see again. You'll get rejected, you'll laugh, you'll have fun, you'll learn that your conversation with each other deepens, your trust strengthens, and self-confidence increases, and not to take it all too seriously when things don't happen as expected.

That said, my favorite? Go with no (or few) set expectations.

Gina

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sometimes taking one for the team doesn't turn out that way in the end! sometimes it totally does though, lol...

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anddddd, do not meet lost_j1 b/c they sound lame! ha

Woodridge IL
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Sometimes I look in the mirror and I realize one of the reasons she fell in love with me. ;-)

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"Never take one for the team. Trust me, you only feel cheap when you do it."

Sometimes I feel cheap just looking in the mirror :)

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You do not get a ribbon when you go full swap. If you are uncomfortable with full swap...do NOT do it until you ARE comfortable with it. BOTH of you.

Do not be afraid to say no thank you.

Do not be afraid of being called hyperselective because you do not fuck everything with a heart beat.

Do not shy away from being selective. That is a good thing.

Never take one for the team. Trust me, you only feel cheap when you do it.

Never go to a party in a pissy or a bad mood.

If you get a bad vibe about a couple/person...listen to it.

Be hesitant in believing what someone says about a couple/person. Get to know them for yourself before you make a judgement about them.

Be discreet. If you are discreet with others, they will usually be discreet with you.

Don't be afraid to be called a bitch. Some great women have been called bitches.

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"Nice posts playtime and Mrs Sav"

Thank you Mr Sin and welcome. Do come out of lurking and post more often it is always refreshing to hear new ideas and opinions.

Mrs Sav

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Why thank you Rdy. I was here for a while as a SM, been lurking since creating our couple profile.

Tyler TX
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Nice posts playtime and Mrs Sav

Mr Sin

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