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TOPIC: The very odd couple looking for the Unicorn

Created by: Uriah Original Starting post for this thread:
I have been in the LS for a long time as both a SM and a couple, and something impresses me as very, very odd. A previous sexy partner and I maintained separate single profiles in which we referenced the other. She would get hit on by drooling, effusive couples looking for the Unicorn. She would usually respond that she and Uriah were getting togther the next weekend, and the couple was welcome to join us. The couples always declined. My new partner is much, much, sexier than the previous partner, and we also maintain separate single profiles. Since she is much sexier than the previous partner, she gets even more contacts from couples looking for the Unicorn. Likewise, the couples decline when they learn that Uriah will be in the room. Couples, we are giving you a chance to play with my partner. What gives? (I know the answer, but I won't express it publicly because I am so polite).

Created by: Uriah
Original Starting post for this thread:

I have been in the LS for a long time as both a SM and a couple, and something impresses me as very, very odd.

A previous sexy partner and I maintained separate single profiles in which we referenced the other. She would get hit on by drooling, effusive couples looking for the Unicorn. She would usually respond that she and Uriah were getting togther the next weekend, and the couple was welcome to join us. The couples always declined.

My new partner is much, much, sexier than the previous partner, and we also maintain separate single profiles. Since she is much sexier than the previous partner, she gets even more contacts from couples looking for the Unicorn. Likewise, the couples decline when they learn that Uriah will be in the room.

Couples, we are giving you a chance to play with my partner. What gives? (I know the answer, but I won't express it publicly because I am so polite).

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User Details are only visible to members.	This is really a HT, but I thought it should go here on this thread since this thread may have been the one seen by a lurker. Dear Lurker: According to the profile police, somebody pointed out my profile to them, and SHAZAM!! I am no longer a single female and they changed my gender to a "Couple Profile", at least they did not give me a sex change to a single male, I am not sure how I could have explained that to my friends;) I am a lucky girl, in that it will not cost me any more money, I got a great deal to go along with the great guy I already had. Actually, having it done for us automatically has helped me out tremendously by allowing me to check this off my "TO DO LIST". Who knows, we may find the time next year to sit down together and create a unique profile account, but right now with our busy calendars through the end of the year--- when we do have time to be together, computers are the last thing on our minds, trust me. So, To whomever reported my profile without first making your complaint known to me, thank-you for saving us some time. If you know either of us personally, then you know that time is a very valuable commodity to both of us and one that we don't take lightly or waste. So I sincerely apologize if my profile offended you, but it is now rectified, thanks to your kindly intervention. Thank you again and I hope you have a very Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year:). SB
Memphis TN			Username hidden (2719 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	I think that the OP's got enough feedback to realize when he reads these posts, that I think it might be be an opportune time for me to go along with a suggestion he made several weeks ago, and one also mentioned here, even if it means another item for a busy person to put on a to do list. Mrs. Sed I don't read profiles either unless someone contacts me about meeting. I love looking at peoples pictures though, but SLS has some issues with that lately along with other glitches that may be remedied. To OP: I will see you this weekend;) Shelly
Memphis TN			Username hidden (2719 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	SB, I have to admit, I rarely if ever read people's profiles. So I had no idea that you had the OP on your profile. But it sounded from the OP that it's not the case, though he never really went into details. Secondly, I have no idea whom your paired up with, or play with I should say. These days I do not read the forums closely, much changed on the forums, as did circumstances outside of it. As to OP's attractiveness, I'm guessing that he is, for some reason Uriah has me blocked. So I'll take your word for it :). Though it's been years since we've written to anyone in the hopes of hooking up. We've certainly experienced the, oh, do you mind if I bring my boyfriend/husband/lover etc...
Colts Neck NJ			Username hidden (12224 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Shit, I am sitting in doctors office getting decadron shot and gettin my flirt on with cute doctor, and didnt see the other poster. URIAH (SM) lives in Memphis, SB311 (SF) lives 180 miles south in MS, we are a fairly new couple -- just met this summer. We also experience the issue in reverse, with married and single women who want to meet just him. We do play seperately whenever we are apart, usually during the week. As a few of these posters know first hand, he was busy with an athletic event this weekend and I went off to NOLA with orders from him to "Have Fucking Fun for the both of US". I may have accomplished too much fun if that's possible. I know I deserved some fucking fun after a possibly illegal person stopped on the exit ramp of I-10 and my cute little bejeweled vanity tag on my front bumper met his rear bumper. The dood got out took a look at my bumper and jumped in his car and drove off leaving me standing there Couplesprofile -- might be a good idea soon, I even just thought of a very good name for one, let me go check if its available.
Memphis TN			Username hidden (2719 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	You know we dont know about other areas. BUT in the va. area most of the single female profiles are really housewives either playing around on there spouse or Like yall said just springing it on you after hoping you will except. to us that is deceptive as well. I know like us we have been messaged many times. Wanting to play with My better half but say I am either to old or theY only want a female. "Personally". I have no problem sitting back and watching my better half having fun. With a female or a couple. We have actually messaged some couples looking for a female only. JUST because we know how hard that is to find. IN THE LONG RUN WHEN EVERYTHING IS SAID AND DONE AND OUR COMPANY IS GONE. I KNOW I WILL BE TAKEN CARE OF TOTALLY. KEEP IN MIND THIS LIFESTYLE IS ALL ABOUT THE FEMALE. IF SHE IS HAPPY THEN THE GUYS WILL BE.
Lynchburg VA			Username hidden (45 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	@Mrs.Sed I still admire you for your candor and honesty in expressing your opinions and I definitely concur with your assessment that my guy Uriah is handsome and intelligent. Happy Holidays;) Shelly:)
Memphis TN			Username hidden (2719 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Well my intentions were never to mislead anybody, and I apologize to anybody who thinks thinks that is what was intended. Many of the forum posters have been aware of our partnership eversince somebody went public with my visit to his office, but many of the locals don't follow the forum activities. My profile has referenced my partner for quite a while actually, but I hope I have rectified that situation with the language that has been added to my profile now. Please take a look and let me know.
Memphis TN			Username hidden (2719 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Well the answer is simple, they were looking to hook up with her, not you. Her springing it on the couple comes off as deceitful. The typical "single" woman who hides her partner then springs him on others. Leaving the people to wonder, what other surprises are in store for them. People contacted her, not you. They're interested in her, not you. Regardless of how handsome and smart you are.
Colts Neck NJ			Username hidden (12224 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	This is a bit like the hitchhiking couple, where the male hides in the bushes while the female is out there on the road. If you're looking to play as a couple, why don't you have a couples profile? Why does she pretend to be a single female, and then say, "Oh, my boyfriend will also have to be there" -- ? If you spring that little switch on people, why would they think anything other than that additional surprises are in store? It's also rather weird that you refer to yourself in the 3rd person. How much of you is really real?
Flat Rock NC			Username hidden (2789 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	This doesn't answer your question but throwing it out there anyways. We are not actively looking for singles but we are definitely looking for sexy, intelligent, and fun cpls like you two. So, if we approached your lovely partner and she responded that you were part of the date, we would think we won the lottery. It's difficult to find a cpl where both the F and M are attractive. In your case, we would count our blessings and take you up on the offer to join the party. You know Uriah, Atlanta is not far from Memphis at all and we make great hosts. Just saying ;-)
Alpharetta GA			Username hidden (904 post)

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