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TOPIC: The subtle approach
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| OK, you and your SO are at, let's say, a wedding. Or a convention, somewhere where there are lots of other couples, new people, people who are not there for hooking up. You spot an attractive couple, and maybe make eye contact with one or both of them. Now, how do you break the ice, and then move the conversation in the right direction, without tipping your hand too soon and risking a potentially embarassing scene? How do you find out if they're players, without really asking? |
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"Vanillas"? Oh, we're learning so many neat new terms!
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In my locality, there are a handful of clubs known to be patronized by swingers. The names of the clubs are not necessarily suggestive of their nature. However, anyone who enjoys recreational sex knows that they are swing clubs. One way to subtly investigate interest is to talk about clubs in general, spinkle in the names of the swing clubs, and see if that raises an eyebrow.
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OK, you and your SO are at, let's say, a wedding. Or a convention, somewhere where there are lots of other couples, new people, people who are not there for hooking up. You spot an attractive couple, and maybe make eye contact with one or both of them. Now, how do you break the ice, and then move the conversation in the right direction, without tipping your hand too soon and risking a potentially embarassing scene? How do you find out if they're players, without really asking?
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TOPIC: The subtle approach
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