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4 out of 5 couple WE turn down is because the my wife finds the woman too attractive...lol"

hahahaha damn. I was told this just THIS week by a hubby LOL. He said "Im into you and the wife thinks you are sweet...and there is no easy way to say this...but she said no because she has to be the prettiest girl in the room (in her eyes, looks being relative). You make her feel uneasy because she does not feel as pretty with you around, and she picks our playmates."

I thanked him for his honesty.

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Oh yeah. The dope thread. I remember. She's kind of cute.

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He's not, he's part of a couple right here:

kinksterhere

He started the thread about 420 in the Open forums ;)

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I'd guess the OP is more single than he was 108 days ago when he started the thread.

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Some women who really don't want to swing use "high standards" as a way to do as little as possible while still socializing in the lifestyle and placating hubby. This may not be the case with you, and there's not much you can do about it. If she herself meets the standard she is setting for others you won't be able to change her mind. If she is expecting playmates more attractive than she is, then you could try to point that out gently. Since you have a single male profile it's impossible to make any judgement on that score.

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@itsbeen - LOL!! I already got enough a**, I don't need to make more of it! :)

@Akron - I was always partial to "Todd"...... and of course...GI Joe!

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We are Ken and Barbie and we only play with Skipper and Blaine.

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Wanna - "More like 2 goofballs mucking our way around trying not to make a**es of ourselves. LOL" ----------------------------- If I was evah coming to the islands, you sound like just the kinda people I'd like to meet! We could all try not to make A**es of ourselves! LOL

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@sweettart & live wire - You guys are so *sweet*! {blush} You sure you're not coming to Maui??? :) Ken and Barbie we are definitely not. More like 2 goofballs mucking our way around trying not to make a**es of ourselves. LOL

I enjoy taking pix and am picky about which ones I post. While ours are all truthful, recently taken and not retouched, I will (of course) post the ones where I/we look the best.

Now hubby, for whatever reason, doesn't take a good picture...and he's the 1st one to say it. Posed pictures make him look stiff (and not in the good way..lol) and candid shots of him NOT in work-attire are difficult to come by. So sometimes we have a hard time with couples/women being hesitant to meet with us because he looks like a "big guy", but he's sooo charming and funny and sexy in person. His ocean-blue eyes and cleft chin don't show up well in pix.... :)

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As to your post specifically, we're more like your husband. Unless your looks attract us to the point of desiring you sexually, I don't care what a glowing personality might lurk in you, I don't care what a heart of gold you have, it's just not going to happen.

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