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TOPIC: Some folks should just quit the lifestyle

Created by: AGreatCouple4Fun Original Starting post for this thread:
I think the folks who do not have the courtesy to send a simple "no thanks" to a message should consider leaving the lifestyle. Not responding to someone indicates one of three things. 1.) A poser - You are not a real swinger but are only here to fulfill a selfish fantasy. 2.) No class - Your Mama raised you wrong and you need lessons in manners. 3.) Low IQ - Probably lack the mental capacity to click on the reply button and type a response. If the above is true then on second thought thanks for not responding we wouldn't want to hang with you, let alone see you naked. To those of you who have experienced the sound of silence. Am I off the mark here or what?

Created by: AGreatCouple4Fun
Original Starting post for this thread:

I think the folks who do not have the courtesy to send a simple "no thanks" to a message should consider leaving the lifestyle.  Not responding to someone indicates one of three things.

1.) A poser - You are not a real swinger but are only here to fulfill a selfish fantasy.
2.) No class - Your Mama raised you wrong and you need lessons in manners.
3.) Low IQ - Probably lack the mental capacity to click on the reply button and type a response.

If the above is true then on second thought thanks for not responding we wouldn't want to hang with you, let alone see you naked.

To those of you who have experienced the sound of silence.  Am I off the mark here or what?

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User Details are only visible to members.	People get so emotionally involved in this subject because they hate being ignored themselves, yet they like the ability to ignore others when it suits them.
Fairview Heights IL			Username hidden (631 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Why do so many people get so emotionally involved in this activity?
Avondale LA			Username hidden (4496 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Point is taken no reply, no reply, not going to shoot myself..I was just curious. I think people just copy/past the same email to about 100 people and then pick and choose who to reply to. I also agree with the orignal poster. s
New York NY			Username hidden (265 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	but how do you know..would you wait a day a week, may be someone got sick, or they went on vacantion...how long would you give them? Besides there is a canned Tex that says "thank you not interested" it take like 3 sec to put an end to it. That reeks of desperation. They don't answer you move on. End of story.
Colts Neck NJ			Username hidden (12263 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	I think with the internet it is easier to look at pics and say no thanks, and continue looking than it was when ppl used the magazines. I imagine if someone went to all the trouble of writting and setting up a meeting if they were not what you wanted it may have been harder for ppl to say no thanks in person. I am glad I didnt get into this until it was as easy as it is to see if you will mesh other than in person.
Spring TX			Username hidden (1844 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Sardy - It could be tied to a retinal scanner and no effort at all would be needed to send the no thanks reply...still wouldn't happen for some people. Give it up. Don't wait for anyone. Move on, nothing here to see citizens. Don't worry, be happy!
Amherst OH			Username hidden (2271 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	..but how do you know..would you wait a day a week, may be someone got sick, or they went on vacantion...how long would you give them? Besides there is a canned Tex that says "thank you not interested" it take like 3 sec to put an end to it.
New York NY			Username hidden (265 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	What does this mean..you get email and you write back and then nothing....? It means, not interested, end of story.
Colts Neck NJ			Username hidden (12263 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	*And if you can't communicate then maybe swinging isn't for you? Communication is probably the most basic and necessary eliment in the lifestyle. Just because people aren't interested in communicating with you, doesn't mean they're not communicating with others, and quite successfully I might add.
Colts Neck NJ			Username hidden (12263 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	I have notice that all the things mention in this thread have become an epidemic in the lifestyle. It wasn't always this way, Before the internet when you had to use a magazine to find other swingers, and had to know someone before you could attend a club, people where a lot more sincere, We would actually meet and play with at lest 90% of the people we would contact or contacted us. Now we do good to meet with around 1% even though we deal with 10xs the number people then we did then. That's not the only thing that has changed, at lest in our experence. When we first got into the lifestyle it was still reminiscent of the 60's & 70's free love. Up until about 4 yrs ago when you went to a club or house party, people would actually play with people other then their spouse. The last few clubs we have been to if you saw a set of bare boobs you where lucky.(granted it may just be the clubs we have been going to)
New Orleans LA			Username hidden (2190 post)

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