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I am always upfront and yes I would love to watch and not need to participate.

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"But most of the other women are not cool with just watching her man play with Mrs LA without playing."

Although I enjoy watching Mr Sav play with others I am surely not going to side on the sidelines with the male half the whole night applauding them on nor strictly play with her . If we wanted a "single" we'd look for a single and although I am sure you can find people specifically for that type f play many couples will not be happy with that arrangement. Be sure to be specific in exactly what you are seeking to "surprise" any couple at the last minute you prefer to "watch" is a recipe for disaster and deceptive.

Mrs Sav

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Re-read what I wrote, wasn't very clear.

I like watching her play, more so with men than women. Sense she is bi she prefers other couples so she can have some girl/girl play. But most of the other women are not cool with just watching her man play with Mrs LA without playing. Don't get me wrong, I very much enjoy playing myself but once in a while I wouldn't mind just watching. So Sweet we could watch together, lol

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lacpl, I DO enjoy watching him in a threesome of moresome. I dont know what you meant like me most women dont like to watch. I prefer to watch, dont care to be involved much at all 80 percent of the time.

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Dam sweet, we need to get together. I'm a watcher but she prefers couples because she's bi and like you most of the other women aren't cool with just watching after the ladies are done.

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When I became a couple we entertained couples, singles m and f.. I found over time I the fem, prefer to watch. Not that there are a lot of guys ok with that.. but we find enough to keep me happy ,, and I dont end up takin one for the team.

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Dragon I wish you had a better time. But I wonder if experience and may have made things weird? I think people men especially do not fully understand what they are feeling or how to deal with it properly. So are these guys you were with new to things?

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Dragon, It won't be the same for him or you, but he'll be fine.


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and how do you feel about watchers??? (no involvement at all)"

ummm.....well, we all have the right to play as we wish. This is for fantasy fun, and fantasy fun to me may not be what it is to you. And thats okay. However, when my hair gets bristled is when someone tells me they are this way or that way...then when my panties hit the floor they are a totally different way. I feel deceived and lied to...and that pisses me off. We knew a couple where he is a watcher. He cannot or does not get an erection with anyone other than his wife. What frustrated me about it was the fact that before I discovered this, there was mucho shit talking about what and how he was going to rock my world. Okay, things happen. When this became a trend, however....we discovered that it was more of she likes FMFs....gets hers, he gets hot watching her...then they fuck. I am there more for the cocky than the pussy, so once we were like ahhhh.....that was it sexually with them. They did, however, remain our friends.


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LOL I see where it could kinda kick my self-confidence if the other man didn't wanna "play" with me, but that's the ideal situation for me and my hubby. He is completely cool with the guys watching while the girls play and then playing with our own partner. If the other guy happens to rather wanna go watch tv or something and his woman wants to continue to play with us both, then its even greater.

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