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Created by: pirate Original Starting post for this thread:
We host a monthly meet and greet for couples only, and of course by popular demand, single girls. We had a single straight girl show up at our last meeting and she wasn't recieved too well by the wives once they found out she is very straight, and was interested in only their husbands. I've asked her not come back. I'd like some feed back about this matter. Should we host single bi- girls, or no single girls at all?

Created by: pirate
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We host a monthly meet and greet for couples only, and of course by popular demand, single girls. We had a single straight girl show up at our last meeting and she wasn't recieved too well by the wives once they found out she is very straight, and was interested in only their husbands. I've asked her not come back. I'd like some feed back about this matter. Should we host single bi- girls, or no single girls at all?

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User Details are only visible to members.	"We have yet to reach a point of desperation that would cause us to play with singles, male or female" Why would it be an act of desperation? There are many swingers that enjoy MFM or FMF play. That's one of the reasons swinging got started ya know. It was about couples sharing and it was never intended to be exclusively couple to couple.
Fort Worth TX			Username hidden (8590 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Simba reiterated an interesting point here with "she ignored my presence". Bringing up insecurities in a different spin here, is it insecure for a Single (m or f) not to interract with the other half of the couple? Mrs.
Philadelphia PA			Username hidden (372 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	I think its up to the hostess to explain to the straight lady what couples in your group usually look for so there are no surprises when it comes time to play. I tired in our early Newbie times to have a FMF at a party with a straight woman and it just doesn't work. She ignored my presense and Mr. Sim sensed her wishing I wasn't around. Maybe if both fems were st8 a FMF might work because they are working off the same page but as soon as that st8 single lady finds out the males wife is bi....she will "compensate" for it in her actions so the bi woman won't think she is open to any FF play. It ends up being no fun for both in our experience, so we only play FMF if both females are bi.
Mountain Ranch CA			Username hidden (8750 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Chalk this up to mingling with the wrong crowd - which is the fault of all parties involved (Hosts and Single Female Guest). To save yourselves and other future Guests, promote your parties as Couples that permit a small percentage of Bi Ladies (who enjoy group experiences with couples). I'd never assume insecurity over people's preferences, respecting each others is key in this lifestyle. Mrs.
Philadelphia PA			Username hidden (372 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	You have to ask yourself this........... the straight lady...... Did she do anything out of hand whille there? Was she respectful to all that were there? Did she do or say anything to offend anyone? See if she did nothing wrong during the meet then it is so wrong to ask her not to come back just because the other ladies got jealous over her. When a single lady is found which is rare and they are good ones then you keep them if others have a problem with them then there the ones who need to be asked not to come back . Personally woman hit on Markie all the time if CJ is there or not when we go out but the thing is it is no big deal because Markie always tells them thannk you for the interest but i am married and if CJ is alright with you joining us for a evening then kewl otherwise thank you but no thank you. There is no jealousy at all between us there shouldnt be not in this lifestyle. If we were at a meet with a single straight lady id probaly have her at our table makeing her feel at home and comfortable no matter what........ the same with a Bi lady ......... Woman are precious gifts and should be treated as such ( until proven not to be a lady...lol ).
Castlewood VA			Username hidden (171 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	"Insecurity is so unattractive." You can say that again!
Fort Worth TX			Username hidden (8590 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	I polled our charter members (had to be paid SLS, certified, and with pics) 2 years ago when we created our group. Everyone said "yes" to single girls, and they liked the fact we didn't accept single guys. We don't host parties, just meet n greets. The host does have the right to dictate the house rules. We hosted a m&g that this sf attended. I heard several complaints from the wives present at that meeting- all of it was negative. I repolled the group, and the overwhelming vote was against straight s/f's attending. I recognized several truths that have been mentioned here: s/bi/f's are a rare find, most couples would take one. s/m's are a dime a dozen, there are more of them than m/m's. Let the straight s/f's fish for a playmate in the s/m seas. If this s/f prefers m/m's for the sake of avoiding strings; then she should seek that on her own through the net. One last note- I found out our s/f is really married, and on the way to divorce. I appreciate everyone's response here, it is an eye-opening experience.- Aaron
Camarillo CA			Username hidden (87 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	I missed the replies here until now. As Usual Flirty, I completely concur. :) I also appreciate the other viewpoints shared here.
Bear DE			Username hidden (160 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Well i think you were right in doing what you did. Everyone has their preferences. I have to agree on the whole respect thing. While i don't care of a woman is bi or straight if she doesn't show me respect that tells me she doesn't respect my relationship with my hubby. Heck i would like to find a single straight girl for those times when i just want to enjoy watching hubby play. It's all a matter of comfort. As for the comment about allowing all or allowing none i have to disagree. While it is extremely easy to find a single guy willing to go out with you it is very hard to find a single bi female. From my experience (when i was a single girl) i was much more careful and just wouldn't meet couples unless it was at a party, meet and greet, or something similar.
Mayfield PA			Username hidden (910 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	pirate, Since both of us are straight, we prefer to meet women and men, who understand that with us, the sex will be straight. We have no problem with those that are Bi, as we like socializing with everyone. When it comes to sex we are in this together and prefer those that enjoy similar things that we do. Ok, as I re-read my post, I am not making much sense - lol. Point being, for house parties, I would focus on character, covering both bi and straight, as well as single men and women. The house party we go to invites a LIMITED number of pre-screened single guys. It is open to all couples and single females. We think it works well for everyone's tastes.
Minden NV			Username hidden (4041 post)

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