Scared and Jealous!: Swingers Discussion 89686

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Scared and Jealous!: Swingers Discussion 89686

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TOPIC: Scared and Jealous!

Created by: countrycouple610 Original Starting post for this thread:
Ok, I have experienced this kind of life style with an ex. Now hubby and I are looking to experience. Went to our first party, things going great, then I got scared. I couldn't handle seeing him with someone else. I GOT JEALOUS!! I really want to do this. Anyone out there that can give me some advice on this. I don't want to be afraid to see him with someone else. Its only sex, right?

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User Details are only visible to members.	Reservations are normal when indulging in something we are taught from birth is immoral. Individuality and the base human desire for pleasure is what inspires us to proceed. Honesty, trust and communication are all the ingredients necessary for success.
Gerrardstown WV			Username hidden (277 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Yep, some of us are even republicans....GASP. Shelly
San Marcos TX			Username hidden (23661 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Good post, AllenandDonna. Every swinger starts out with different feelings and expectations, but you have pretty much nailed it as to how it works for most people. Jim
South Riding VA			Username hidden (8158 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Seams like everyone in these forums is more about insulting each other and chatting more about things that don't matter , rather then give their views on the questions , i was under the impression that forums were for helping others with questions but i may be wrong .....lol anyways to answer you question , we faced the same problem when we first started , we started out by donna being with another man and i was excited , nervous and i let it turn into a small case of jealousy , but i had to stop and remember that it was my idea and what i wanted for her and would lead into other things as we went along . i am not a jealous person by nature but to think that something might happen that would take my love away from me got my emotions all tore up , how i over came it was simple , i asked her if she enjoyed it , did she see it happening again and how she felt about me now that things have changed , well she enjoyed it enough that we became full time swingers and having the time of our life , yes she had to face the same problem with seeing me with another woman , but i let her know that she was my only love and reassured her by telling her the same things she told me . so YES you will feel nervous or jealous about seeing your mate with another person , but its nothing you cant over come by simple communication and reassuring each other of how you feel. we hope this helps you or someone else in some small way , take care , have fun and enjoy life ti it's fullest .
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User Details are only visible to members.	Tort, read the book "The Ethical Slut." I love being a slut, so, indeed, I turned out to be what my parents always thought I'd be...ha! We were just mentioning again tonight how cool it is to be married to someone you love who really loves you unconditionally, yet we can have fun having sex with other people too. G.
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User Details are only visible to members.	:-) at spade!! scott, i submit that it is not a lie to interpret facts in an alternate viewpoint!!
Philadelphia PA			Username hidden (5330 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	you wouldn't by me... i don't pay for something I get for free anywhere else. LOL
Lake Worth FL			Username hidden (7209 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	sweetheart.. you're young and not well verused. whores get paid. sluts give it away for free... learn the difference :-)
Lake Worth FL			Username hidden (7209 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	I wish I had met women like you after my wife and I seperated. They all got pissed that I woudn't call them. One was even pissed because i threw her out of my house at 10am. "i don't run a hotel you need to leave".
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User Details are only visible to members.	my kind of girl. Puts out and doesn't want anything in return LOL.
Lake Worth FL			Username hidden (7209 post)

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TOPIC: Scared and Jealous!