Rant: Swingers Discussion 65969

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Created by: cnycple4fun	The original post for this thread was deleted.

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User Details are only visible to members.	We've experienced the same things. We've been turned down and we've turned down others. A couple of times over the past few years we've had some jackasses who feel scorned and they reply with some idiotic comment. We don't let it get to us. And far as blocking us goes, oh well. It just means that I'm guaranteed not to recieve any more emails from that person. We usually try to answer all of our emails, but we too refuse to reply to those that do not take time to read our profile. We're very specific about full swapping, yet we still get the occassional invite to soft swap. WTF? Speaking of stupid replies, last month we came across a profile that seemed nice and had a very sexy pic. Sometimes we like to break the ice with a compliment, so we emailed them and told them that we thought the picture was very sexy and attractive. The jackasses replied back with how unsexy my wife's panties were. Have things become so bad here that a compliment gets turned into an insult? Just tagging on my rant to yours. L.
Briarwood NY			Username hidden (147 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	cnycple4fun, We have also had nasty comments made when we politely turn someone down. We just let it roll off us. Like you, we have been turned down, or blocked, for no apparent reason, and yet, we don't take it personal. As you stated not everyone is interested, or attracted to everyone else. We feel everyone can be pleasant and still turn down without offending. We empathize with your bad experience.
Minden NV			Username hidden (4041 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Ok, While I agree that responding rudely back is uncalled for and mean, I do NOT think a lack of response necessarily is. First, did you fully read their entire profile? Are you what they are even looking for? I am a very courteous person, and generally I will try to respond to every e-mail I get, BUT I cannot respond politely to the ones who are CLEARLY not what I talked about in my profile. I have specific requirements, and am trying to save everyone time by being detailed in my profile. If a person or couple didn't take the time to read it, (for example they're a smoker, which I specifically go into detail about) I choose silence as opposed to anger in my response.
Bear DE			Username hidden (160 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	the rudeness seems rampant...we have experienced quite a bit in the short time we have been on this site...strange for people looking to make friends with benefits.......ya never know who will connect you with whom, we try to treat others as we wish to be treated.........seems lots never learned the golden rule......Chelle
Suffolk VA			Username hidden (46 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	The people that feel they need to respond to a rejection with something negative will either grow out of it over time or they won't last in the lifestyle. From the negative responses I have seen it's normally people that have a big ego and they assume that if they meet the age, race and height requirements then you should be honored to meet them. They forget that attraction is a large part of exploring fantasy/sex and it's either there or not. sadly these type of people need to be lumped into the same group that never responds to messages sent. ...... They are all a waste of time.
Sandston VA			Username hidden (195 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	The worst of the "rudeness" we've gotten is a failure to respond or out right blocking after we've taken the time to send pics. Failure to respond doesn't bother us as much as the blocking (only happened once...which I don't understand). We usually joke about being rejected....we try to get one good rejection per week L. When someone is polite enough to write and say "we're not compatible", I'll write them a note thanking them for their response. Those people at least have enough class to let us know they received our pics.
Palm Beach Gardens FL			Username hidden (1095 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Having to turndown another couple is never easy for either couple. When we have to do it, we try to be as polite and diplomatic as possible. Sometimes though, we can be the nicest about it, but still well get the occasional asshole that will send back a hurtful remark. We used to let it get to us, but now it kinda just slides off our backs and we move on. Every couple has their own tastes and you can't fault them for that. Most of the problems we get though are from people that just dont bother to READ OUR PROFILE. I mean, come on... how hard is it to take 5 mins and read. GRRR!!! lol
North Syracuse NY			Username hidden (94 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Mandi, don't let that shit get to your head. Alot of people are assholes, and the only way for them to feel better is to try and make you feel bad for rejecting them. Ignore and block are your only options for these kind of people. Plus you're a hottie so these instances are going to occur occasionally. -s
Rochester NY			Username hidden (10385 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	we have never had anyone do that. when we decline someone we say this : " Thankyou for your interest however we dont feel we are compatible" never gotten a nastygram back. Perhaps it is the way you "word" turning them down but that is still no excuse for rude behavior in return. sorry to hear your experience has been bad. the only couple we had return a decline from us appologized for getting pushy (we had plans to meet) but we still do not wish to meet them.
Niagara Falls NY			Username hidden (1021 post)

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