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User Details are only visible to members.	i might give someone a second chance, but probably not a third
Philadelphia PA			Username hidden (1416 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	I agree we are all in this for a good pounding. I was mortified and I am taking steps to make sure it never happens. I was just curious how many women would give me a second chance. Luckily, the lady and I have been in contact and our friendship is headed positive. Next week I will get the injections and this problem will be over. Thanks all.
Mount Laurel NJ			Username hidden (33 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Touching and all that is fun but it doesn't satisfy me. It just teases me and makes me want a good pounding. i agree. i dont want to just be teased, only to end up disappointed. after all, we are in this to fuck!
Philadelphia PA			Username hidden (1416 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	I agree with you, Gina, to a point. I like a good pounding. I understand sometimes impotence happens and have no problems dealing with it but if that person has it happen every time, I won't keep them as a play partner. Touching and all that is fun but it doesn't satisfy me. It just teases me and makes me want a good pounding. Carrie
Corpus Christi TX			Username hidden (16527 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	joey, please send that cute wife our way so we can make her feel better about herself. We are good like that, always trying to help others.
Chambersburg PA			Username hidden (848 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Now that I reread what I wrote I see I came across harsh. That was unfair. I totally agree there is a place for everyone. This is afterall all about fun. I think especially as you get older, this is something that can be discussed and is probably not a deal breaker for everyone. The few experiences we had with erection problems were not medical but probably more anxiety, shyness, or whatever reason. In those cases when you have a young 20 something guy that cant get it up or keep it up, it gets really awkward. For a period of time my wife had gained a lot of weight that she has recently lost and is still losing so for a few years she was self conscious about her body. So when a guy would join us and lose or not get an erection, she felt embarrassed and here we were, 3 of us naked in bed kind of twiddling our thumbs. I do think that if someone knows they have a problem, that mentioning it in advance is the right thing to do. That would save the awkwardness and the other people involved would be aware that it may happen and just go along with other things and not make a big deal out of it. But having it happen in the heat of the moment with no warning, its hard to convince the lady or couple "its me, not you" Again. Im sorry for coming off wrong. Theres plenty of room for everyone on this bus...lol
Mount Juliet TN			Username hidden (662 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	I agree with Chimera, and realized when I read the ages of Joey and Chimera, that it's a generational difference of opinion. Not to stereotype, but seems like younger swingers will indeed need/want that hard pounding cock each and every time, but more ahem, "seasoned" swingers will also appreciate a nice long session of orgasms and play, meaning penetration, if things go that way, or can also mean fingers, hands, mouths, toys, etc. I still maintain that while I like a good hard fuck, my best most intense orgasms come from being touched just right. And if there is a "problem" with a guy's erection, we can still have a good time. And I too would appreciate that "it wasn't you" explanation, just don't go on and on about it, keep it simple, and don't bring it up again. Things happen. Or don't happen. No big deal. The implants are entirely your decision, your body. But don't do it for anyone else but you and your own partner. Good luck, and have fun. Gina
San Antonio TX			Username hidden (6048 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	I have diabetes. At age 50, I suffer from profound ED. For several years, even drugs like Cialis, Levitra, and Viagra didn't help me. At one point my doctor had me taking 5 Viagra at a time, and still... nothing. I quit taking the drugs because I couldn't bear the flu-like symptoms that became worse and worse as I took more and more, higher and higher doses. My wife was, as you can imagine, supportive and understanding. During that time, I refused to take part in the lifestyle. Sure, I could still please a woman orally, but I felt like even if I disclosed the fact that I couldn't get an erection, it somehow wouldn't be fair to the other parties involved. I even allowed my wife to play alone with others because I couldn't get an erection to please her. Later I encountered another gentleman who suffered from ED, and he disclosed that to us before we met. For the first time, I was on the other side of that disclosure, and to be honest with you, his problem didn't bother me, or my wife, one bit. Looking back, I think I was too harsh on myself. My problem was just that, a problem. I was hard on myself about it, but I should have realized that there are people out there for everyone, in every condition. My urologist was about to schedule me for penile implant surgery. We were literally just a couple of weeks away from my going under the knife. Then my brother put me in touch with a doctor who was able to custom blend for me an injectable that works really, really well. And the injection is virtually painless. My ED problem has been resolved, I can now get and maintain full, firm erections that last for usually about 3 hours or so, without fail. Now that I had it, lost it, and gotten it back, my advice is: don't be so harsh on yourself. People are a lot more understanding than you think.
Riverview FL			Username hidden (6 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Mrs. Chimera, you're very beautiful!!! ...and personally i've never been a fan of the jack rabbit! lol lady K
Kunkletown PA			Username hidden (2981 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	I am a little troubled by the implication in several posts that without a rigid erection a guy has no business in the lifestyle. One of life's truisms is that "nobody is everybody's cup of tea -- but everybody is somebody's cup of tea!" I have seen profiles where the men freely admitted that they had ED probs, but were experts with fingers and tongues -- and I bet that there are lots of women who would say "That's good enuf for me, dadgummit!!" Mrs. Chim and I are still in the game, although -- at our level of seasoning -- not the jackrabbits we were in our 20s and 30s. We will hang it up when we discover that no one is interested in us or our game. Hasn't happened yet....(knock on wood)
Charlotte NC			Username hidden (544 post)

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