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We don't think you can look at play in the LS as "quid pro quo." i.e., the event is not a complete success unless both of you have a mind-blowing experience. Sometimes one or the other of you is going to draw the short straw. Not a big deal. It all evens out in the end, we think.

And sure, most folks get a 2nd chance. Hell, isn't Christianity all about redemption? We have had experiences where one half of a couple we truly adore was down because of radical surgery. Holding, cuddling and reassuring someone going through that is the kind and compassionate thing to do with someone you care about If the other halves are able and willing to get it on -- fine. If not -- no big deal. What's on TV?

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lol...ill tell you, that makes me feel better. fuck sex, charlotte russe puts my ass in a good mood hahaha

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or go to the mall

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Try popsicle sticks and duct tape.

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It happens to everyone and it doesn't necessarily mean there is a "problem"

Performance anxiety can be expected from time to time and people with a little experience can overcome that or at least keep things light hearted and not embarrassing.

A known medical problem though, should be disclosed.

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Mr Frnz has gotten upset a few times when the guy i was with was unable to get an erection for me. Because we play in separate rooms, he wouldn't know until after what happened and felt badly that he had his fun with the other lady...but For me, as long as the guy continued to try to please me with Oral, toys, etc. I am not the least bit bothered by his inability to perform. And as far as being disappointed...never! After all, I get to go home and "get pounded" by my favorite playmate! :)

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Mrs. Sav -- if this does not work then I won't be playing for a while. I agree that it is not fair to the other couple. This was not an ongoing thing. I take Cialis plus some herbs and have not had a problem in over 1.5 years. This just suddenly jumped again. That is why I now have the injection. No embarrassment for me or let downs for anyone else. Have not tried injections yet, other methods are working well.

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LOL Rdy...........I was trying to keep it clean and realistic .

Mrs Sav

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Best of luck, enigma. The injections changed my life, I hope the best for you as well.

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"I think we are here for erotic adventures and that can take many forms. I'd also add that compassion, good will and foreplay ain't bad things to add to the activity. They beat rudeness and indifference. "

No offense intended and I've already stated I'd give a man a 2nd chance but if we're here for SEX , SEX it what we are here for. There is no rudeness nor indifference involved. As I mentioned IF you KNOW you have an issue you should be forthcoming about it. Many couples enjoy and prefer soft swap and are perfectly happy to cuddle and aren't looking for intercourse but for those of us that are here for Full Swap compassion and good will aren't going to get me off. Assuming we don't have a relationship or deep meaningful friendship with said person, this person is not my partner or life mate and therefore I owe them nothing except to handle the situation as politely as possible should this become a problem while we are playing with them. Engima I am glad you are seeing a doctor and I wish you well and resolution. If in the event the issue is not resolved in fairness to those you play with being forth coming is the proper thing to do and I have NO doubt you agree with me in that regard.

Mrs Sav

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