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TOPIC: Question for the ladies about impotence
Created by: enigma322
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I have on again/off again issues. Comes from a head injury and serious meds. The is past NYE I was with an amazing woman. Next to my wife, I think she is the sexiest woman I know. I lost my erection. I assured her it wasn't her. And there have been some friendly messages and txt. But I feel horrible. Do I just let it go and not create drama? Would you be willing to give a guy a second chance? By the way, when I am hard, woman all say I am thick. Please be nice.

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I have found that after trying pills, injections and everything else that exercise works the best.

I was getting frustrated as hell going to different doctors so instead i joined a gym. 3x a week 15 minutes of cardio and 40 minutes of weight room. seeing amazing results after 4 weeks. I did try one new medicine lately that seems to work well with my exercise regiment but just helps keep erection longer(dont need it to get one) and its called staxin. i think thats the way you spell it. It disolves on your tongue and works quickly.

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I can squirt with a great hand job!! ========================

Me too, although I prefer a good blow job.

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@enigma - Not sure if you still check this thread, but good to hear!

Sometimes switching ED meds can help. If cialis just isn't cutting it anymore, switch off to viagra or levitra. Cialis is better as a long-term, weekend ED drug. Levitra and viagra are better for *right now*.

Also...taking the pills on an empty stomach seems to make it work better and faster. Taking a pill during a big dinner and drinks lowers the effectiveness. Although the side effects may be more pronounced on the empty stomach.

For us...we are at an age where ED issues can occasionally happen. Hubby is not a porn star with an on-demand or perpetual hard-on, after all! For us, how much alcohol he has, not hot tubbing right before and not playing too late at night have a lot to do with it.

Best of luck to you

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I have had that problem with some guys. A second chance has always been worth it! Then again I LOVE foreplay. I can squirt with a great hand job!! I guess I am blessed that I can finish without a 'pounding'. Good luck though!! How much do the injections cost? And what is the drug in them?

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Some people asked me to report on needle. I did. It worked. No one at party knew I had a problem. Everyone had a lot of fun. When I lost my erection, it was after an hour of straight sex.

If we are talking about New Years eve. That woman was at this party and we had great time.

I have taken all the precautions. Yohimbe, Cialis, injection. Since I get an erection 98 times out of 100. Not about to say anything in advance.

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It is good to hear all is going well.

A comment to the OP. If you know there is a possibility there is going to be a problem, I think it is only fair you let the couple know up front. It is only fair. It isn't like your long time friends,etc., and the women is there to have fun too. In my opinion you should have went back to your wife and let the other women go back to her husband to play. I think it was a little self on your part.

On a positive note, do not feel bad about not getting it up. Any women swinging should have enough confidence to know if guy is having problems that it is his problem and nothing to do with her.

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Update: I have not need any help for over 6 months. everything working great. Had a house party -- alot of fun but did not go as planned -- I used my needle for the first time. It was like keystone cops assembling it. But it worked well. Ordered more. I seem to go through cycles. Work great for months and then something changes and takes months to come back. It sucks.

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Mrs. Welikecpls -- Thanks. And there was a point that I realized things were over. I quietly told the woman that I was sorry, but I was done for the night. I played with her for a while. I did not let her waste her time on me. We then switched of to our own partners.

I have the injections now. But I have not had a problem and therefore no chance to use them.

Thanks.

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This sort of thing happens more than you would think, nothing to worry over... if a woman is that shallow and can not understand the problem... it is her issue, don't beat yourself up about it!!

You have a medical reason causing this... Most guys that I have run across having that sort of issue, just drank a bit too much or were nervous whatever... Never a problem, it happens. The problem I have is, as a guy, you know if it is going to "work" or not... don't keep hoping for a miracle while my husband and your wife are going strong and done. I would rather just switch things up a bit, so we all end up having a good time:)

~Mrs. Welikcpls

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You say 50s as if it were ancient

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