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TOPIC: Question for guys and girls
Created by: 241fun2013
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My question to the guys : Do you find aggressive women to be a turn on or turn off?

To the girls: Do you find confident women intimidating?

With that being said this is a couples setting swapping partners.

I don't mean pushy or rude. No lines have been crossed. Just talking about a very confident woman who knows what she likes.

Thanks for the reply / input, Mrs. 241

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party,

When you combined dominance and submission, I took it to mean that you were talking about domination/submission, D/s, and/or BDSM.

The behavior discussed in this thread has nothing whatsoever to do with them. Particularly wrong is the idea that submissives (in the D/s sense) are victims. Also wrong is the idea that dominants (in the D/s sense) take control because they have some deep inner need (not further explained) to control others.

That's not to say that there aren't people with psychological disorders who claim to be into the D/s lifestyle, just like there are dysfunctional sex addicts who purport to be swingers.

ST

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241fun2013,

I'd bet my next paycheck that you find more wives will be angered by an aggressive/assertive/whatever woman making moves on their husband than you'll find husbands who are turned off by it.

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partyinthewoods,

Depends on the person. I'm aggressive, but I don't seek to dominate anyone, and I really REALLY hate people who have some deep inner need to control others, even if they find willing victims.

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They can be, but the correlation is not strong.

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Aggression and dominance are not related?

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"Is this not a dominant and submissive thing?"

No.

Kitty Hawk NC
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Is this not a dominant and submissive thing?

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Personally ....sexual confidence, a woman that knows what she wants and desires and is willing to express it and request it in a seductive way can be very erotic.

That said. Attraction is key. If there is no attraction then that same confidence and aggressiveness (confident, sassy) can get very uncomfortable and could even be creepy.

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btw @va, from what I've seen most of the hottest women who frequent these pages seem to be quite anxious for an opportunity to put your cock in some of their most delicious places. if someone is put off by your comments, they certainly appear to be hiding it well. :)

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isn't it obvious? the hamster ate the pizza while enjoying the show along with everyone else.

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TOPIC: Question for guys and girls