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TOPIC: Question for couples: is it wrong of the other to pursue swinging even if his or her partner is unaware
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This is the dumbest fucking question I've seen in these forums. 2 yrs in the abyss wasn't nearly long enough for this thread.

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It's wrong & disrespectful. What if the shoe were on the other foot? Imagine how'd things would affect you before you recklessly jump into something potentially damaging.

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Have you talked about this to your wife? maybe it is you, To small, lousy in bed. if that's the case then who would want to cheat on their spouse with someone who is actual worse in bed than their own spouse, Just a thought :)

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It's quite interesting that people who jump in the sack with anyone would call someone else immoral. ========================

You are destined to fail in this lifestyle. You have no idea what it is about. If you think my wife or I would jump in the sack with anyone you couldn't be more dead wrong.

What is the moral equivalency you make between sharing sex with one's partner yet including others AND trying desperately to fuck others you hope to meet on a swingers site while you hide your behavior from your partner? Don't be foolish. What you are doing is wrong and you know it.

I suggest you try a different site. You'll only waste time and money here.

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Morg, with a tag line that reads "I like oral sex", I suspect you'll have women crawling all over youir profile once they settle down after this long weekend. Be prepared.

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Smooth I did not think it was you who removed it but when I checked this morning before leaving for work at 5 am I swear I didn't see it. Perhaps working 10 to 12 hour days for the last week and a half has taken its toll on my mind, I know my body is paying the price.

My apologies although I assumed it was a site "issue" . I wasn't bothered by the comment in the least . If I have a reputation for telling like I see it I'll happily take it. I'm a no bullshit kinda girl and proud of it., If someone asks my opinion , directly or in a forum I either answer from my heart and honestly or not at all.

If people want the answers to their question sugar coated perhaps they should ask people who love them and are willing to flatter their ego rather than be honest.

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Mrs. Sav, I would have no reason to remove it. It's still there. And even though we get along better on some days than others, and I probably tease you more than I should, I definitely miss that amazing body of yours when you're not around. :)

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Back to the OP: while I do think it is wrong to pursue swinging when your partner is unaware (which then means you are cheating), there are sufficient numbers of members who construct their profiles that way. I suspect most are simply unwilling to post about it in the forums, especially given the responses seen here.

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Joey,

You are a wise man lol. I can and do engage in casual, unemotional sex but in a relationship emotion can and will always affect my sexual desire for my partner . That means if I am mad at you, feel resentful, distrustful , unappreciated or otherwise "abused" my sexual desire for my partner disappears until the situation is rectified . Key word "For My Partner" , I can not separate my "emotional" feelings from my "sexual" desire with a partner I have an invested relationship with. If he has been a dick to me all day there is no chance in hell I am sucking his dick that night. "Foreplay" starts the moment one gets out of bed, not the moment one gets into it.

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