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TOPIC: Question for couples: is it wrong of the other to pursue swinging even if his or her partner is unaware
Created by: silksheets
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if you are a couple and and you have talked about swinging and one of you does not want to is it wrong of the other to pursue swinging even if his or her partner is unaware? I ask this because we met a single who was married and they said their spouse found swinging repulsive (after seeing a 60 minutes segment on it) they said to us is it fair for them not to be in this lifestyle just because the spouse does not like it? It made us think? We understand the issue of "cheating" but is it? why should someone not be able to enjoy something because of the other persons view on the matter? We know this we not be popular with some people but this is what forums are for to get a reaction or insight.

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I think morgadg is no longer a member... maybe he got caught ;-)

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"monogamy isn't the best reproductive strategy."

I confess. I have no earthly idea what that means.

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"the rest of us were just being jackasses and having a little fun with it."

Unfortunately, the morgadg dood from Huntsville deleted the posts we were having fun with. That guy was nuts.

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The short form answer is that if something has to be hidden from the spouse/SO, physical or emotional, it's Cheating. If she's ok with him playing but doesn't care to herself, let her tell you that herself. Failing that, you're enabling a cheating husband and helping him undermine their marriage. Period!

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They have been sneaking around since pre-caveman days I'm sure. Swingers just have the advantage of not having to sneak.

Reproduction is a powerful instinct and monogamy isn't the best reproductive strategy.

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Thanks. it just bugs me a little why people would sneak around with no consideration for a partners feelings .

Ozark AL
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No apology necessary LnC. People bump up old threads all the time. and yes, we often go back and rehash the same tired old topics, but sometimes the "old guard" here forget that many of the newer members were not around the first 6 times the topic came around. that is the nature of ongoing forums.

if there's an old topic you're interested in from two years ago, you should feel completely welcome to throw a comment out. it often inspires a whole new round of discussion. and if anyone doesn't like it, you tell them to kiss that cute little ass of yours. :)

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Apologies for reviving this thread then.I'd not been on this site at it's original posting nor did I check the last reply date.simply answered.

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Yes, yes it is wrong.

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When you are married and you do something behind your partners back esp if it can impact your health, and even if we don't like to think about it, swinging can.. It is cheating.. doing what you want is part of what you give up when you are committed to someone. IMHO.

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TOPIC: Question for couples: is it wrong of the other to pursue swinging even if his or her partner is unaware