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TOPIC: Question for Couples seeking single Males - What makes you want him to cum back

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User Details are only visible to members.	For us, basically the same things that made us chose him over the others. Physically fit, well groomed (all over), respectful, un-selfish, and open minded. Lot of people put these things in their profiles but it takes a lot don't meet the grade either. The few that we have found, we'd be excited to invite them back to party again.
Colorado Springs CO			Username hidden (29 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	i all honesty, and don't take this to be derogatory to single men... we dont' want them to come back. Do the deed leave and that's that. We are each others life partner, we're not going to get emotionally involved with a single of either sex. Hope that's not to harsh, just our reality.
Lake Worth FL			Username hidden (7209 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	My advice on what to say to people in emails...don't forget the guy too...and include him in your correspondance. Our fav. single guy did this/does this, and it goes a long way to showing respect. Of course, compliment the lady, sincerely and specifically (beyond a "nice tits" comment), share just a couple sentences about yourself, have a sense of humor, and just leave it open for them to respond. We ALWAYS respond to every email. Sometimes it takes a few days, but we always respond. Gina
San Antonio TX			Username hidden (5609 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	We have met several single males in this life. Most of the ones that we have played with have been wonderful. What would want us to invite him again? Hmmmm. Well first off, he must be able to carry on a conversation with us. After sex, we like to talk to our friends. If he is uncomfortable in sitting with us naked on the bed after sex, and just wants to get dressed and leave, we will not invite back. Second, we find that laughter is a great stress release. If he laughs and jokes around, we are more apt to invite back. Finally, we only consider inviting a single male back if he has the ability...NOTE...ability, to bring in a female. After all, we are a couple, and don't always have a single female to play with. We had a wonderful lady that was just for my man, but she has moved on and found a wonderful man...and is no longer in the life. So, most single men are out of luck now, unless I find him attractive enough to invite back. Notice that none of the reasons included how he performed? Performance is not an issue for me. We can spend the whole evening just talking and petting and anything other than intercourse, and that would be the best kind of fun. Does that answer the question?
Monterey CA			Username hidden (37 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	I think striving to be a better person inside and out is great advice for all of us. Thanks for your comments. Gina
San Antonio TX			Username hidden (5609 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Very good stuff Gina. I did take notes. I think one of the best things a single male can do is to constantly strive to become a better person inside and outside the lifestyle. Once you think you know it all, that's when sex becomes stale. I find that some ladies like passionate sex with lots of kissing, while others reserve that kind of sex for their husbands. Personally I love the passionate kind, but the other kind can be pretty intense too if you adopt the right mentality. I guess listening is the most important thing when becoming apart of some else's fantasy. Good pointers once again.
Arlington TX			Username hidden (2285 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Ok, now that we've had our first single guy over here, I can probably respond better to this question. 1. He met us first in a public place, a week before we got together sexually, and he talked as much to my husband as he did to me, although his eyes were increasingly on me (very sexy look in his eyes), we talked for a long time, he was intelligent, dressed appropriately, a gentleman, very attractive, funny, and listened. Great hug at the end of the eve. when we went to our cars. 2. When he came over, he was complimentary. Removed his hat inside (wow, you guys seem to forget about little things like that). Sat and talked with us a bit, before proceeding. Liked what I was wearing and let me know it. 3. Kissed great, didn't just grab for my tits, but was confident with himself, polite to my husband...they worked as a "team" to make me feel good. 4. He was the last totally undressed. Brought his own condoms (actually at my request, because I wanted him comfortable as possible). He was great at oral, touched my body in many places, not just the "usual." 5. He fucked me silly. He really did. I was thoroughly and amazingly satisfied. Variety of positions, rhythms, thrusts, and intensity. 6. He and my husband took turns being on the receiving ends of my mouth, and entering me. He enjoyed watching my husband and me too, as well as being the star player in our 3-some. 7. Afterwards, was gracious and nice, and we sat and talked for a few minutes, he didn't just cum and run. Was also nice about disposing of the used condoms, asked if there was some place I'd prefer he put them. He will DEFINITELY be invited back...his body was great, he smelled nice, not overpowering. He took control when he needed to, he held back when needed to, he just wasn't all about himself, he actually gauged the moments and was just a great lover and very exciting. Stamina, a rock hard cock, pleasant to be around, etc., and intelligent conversation with a good sense of humor. All good. Gina
San Antonio TX			Username hidden (5609 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	It seems after reading alot of the post from all the forums that the male is "ACTUALLY SINGLE" lol :(
Baltimore MD			Username hidden (2085 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	ABSOLUTELY in agreeance with you 100%!! This is what my previous issue was about. Just because I won't be having sex with you does NOT mean that I will not have a say in whether or not you play with my spouse! And vice versa for the men....I had one tell me (while Jay was sitting there nonetheless, oops! lol) that my husband could "tag along" if he wanted...NOT! Shelly
San Marcos TX			Username hidden (23665 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	I think the most important thing to me is definitely how he treats the mister, how well he listens (or even better, intuits), what we are looking for. If he ignored my man, we'd probably send him home with absolutely no chance for a return visit. We try to be as respectful as possible of anyone we play with, and we expect the same. Respect is probably #1, sense of humor #2, technique #3, and that's about it. As far as looks go, not really important as long as he has a sincere smile that shows in his eyes as well as his mouth.
Orangevale CA			Username hidden (2 post)

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