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I think I followed the story and the players involved. The phrase "spring it on them" is rarely a good idea in the lifestyle. I'd guess that would even apply to a spouse, so definitely think long and hard before doing it to a friend/acquaintance.
Also, mixing swing friends and vanilla friends is often a bad idea in the long run. Things get out, especially in bar settings. If she ends up deciding to pursue it, definitely run it by the Mrs. No telling how she'd react. Cost benefit analysis: things work out well and you have a hot evening... or... everything and I mean everything blows up. Not worth the risk. |
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Yep, we think she should run it by the wife of the other couple first and privately.
Doing it in front of their other friends might out them. Asking the husband alone first puts pressure on the wife and puts her in the awkward position of saying no. While asking the wife, gracefully gives her the chance to think about it or discuss it with her husband. That's the way we'd want it to happen whether a woman or a man were being offered as a special "gift." If the gift is a woman, ask the wife privately. If the gift is a man, ask the husband privately. Showing that kind of respect helps protect the friendship in the long run. |
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