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Not to go to off topic, but I know what people write in the forums would not be a factor in whether I meet a couple/sm/sf. I am not necessarily seeking long term friends. If that happens great if not that is fine too. What I am seeking is some fun times within what we as a couple have set I personally do not take any thing posted in this "sex" sight seriously. Heck I have met a poster or two and they are a hoot but their comments can be quiet entertaining. :)

But that is just my take on the forum.

My comment on the OP. If you do not want to put your weight in your profile, then make sure you provide a picture of your whole body, not just of your face or a distant blurry body shot.

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"I scanned your posting history, and Mrs.Sav is right on. "

Exactly why I support sites that link the forums you've posted in directly to your profile.

Anybody can write a flattering profile and feed you full of bull shit. Let me me a dozen or so posts you've written on various topics and I can decide immediately if a single word you said about yourself is true.

We were members of a very large site (that we LOVED) until we moved to the South. On that site your posts are readily available by simply clicking a button on your profile. I was an excellent screening , weeding tool. A pity that in this area their membership has yet to bloom.....I do hold out hope though lol.

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maybe they have a dom sub/slave relationship..... juat thinking

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Well, she says no, and he whimpers away! I think that this is what was posted.

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How does one have more say than the other? If both agree, then yes. If both say no then no. If 1/1, it's still no.

If she says yes and he says no, then it happens? If that's the case, that's f'd up. That's not a partnership, that's monarchy... rule by the one.

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"We prefer to stay away from couples where one has more say than the other."

Boy did I read that wrong. I thought you said where one has more TO say than the other...hahaha. Um, that would even include yourselves;) Glad I read it again.

We're also in this together. I may post and email and flirt and socialize on here or set things up, but unh uh if we both aren't in it together, then neither of us are in at all.

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What Mrs.Sav said.

On the other hand, I don't need to see your pictures, I'd pass you by. Power lifter built is not my thing. I like muscular, big dudes, but I don't like them to be simply big and strong. I like them defined.

I scanned your posting history, and Mrs.Sav is right on. This is another reason why we'd pass you for another. We prefer to interact with couples who are a bit more balanced, from our perspective, this isn't a HER or HIS activity, it's a joint activity. We prefer to stay away from couples where one has more say than the other.

And finally, many of your posts are very insecure and bitter sounding. I don't know why that is. But you sound angry, jaded and accusatory that you are being overlooked. Rejection is a fact of life. As adults certainly we should be able to deal with them and move on without lashing out that we've been hurt because we don't fit the criteria of others.

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"Why is it that women automatically think the man is a fat ass if he lists himself at his correct weight. I am 275. But I can also grab 4 bags of horse feed from the floor, put it on my shoulder and walk out the door. Have leg pressed 1200 lbs. Have lifted a small car out of a ditch and saved a lady a tow bill. I think ladies who judge men by their weight are as wrong as those men who judge women by their bust size. And yes I have picked women up (physically) and held them while we had a good time. They seem to enjoy it. I agree there are blobs of fat who don't bother taking care of themselves. But don't pass a guy by just because you think he's not HWP. "

You would automatically be passed by in our case, not so much because of your weight but simply because you don't bother to post pictures of yourself. Think about it! You mention elsewhere your wife has the final say and you don't care how hot the female is if she doesn't like the male half it's a "no go".......do you not think we all feel this way? Do you seriously expect to sell us on your wives photos and hope you pass inspection later? Do we not deserve to see both of you before deciding if there is an attraction all around? From the sounds of your own description you're not fat .....to be blunt ....stop telling me what you look like and just show me. You do yourself a disservice by hiding , you do your wife a disservice by using her photos to "sell" your profile and you do use all a disservice by not giving us a chance to decide for ourselves.

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Sed,

I caught your meaning but the original poster's response confused me. And your correct I would never make that comment.

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We're here for sex not to join your bowling team, attended your sons birthday party or exchange Christmas cards. I don't care how "nice" you are if I'm not attracted I'm not having sex with you. What attracts me varies and is hard to define but what fails to turn me off, is instantaneous . I am not so desperate for variety that I will have sex with a guy just because he seems so nice, he likes me or because he is complimentary to me. On the flip side I don't care how "hot" you are if you're a Dumb Ass I'm not having sex with you either.

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