People who dont show: Swingers Discussion 153938

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TOPIC: People who don't show

Created by: Watcher52 Original Starting post for this thread:
Just got stood up by some couple, I waited hrs for them , gave them my cell, motel number email and they just ignore me . I just don't understand people who do that, just come out and say I have changed my mind, how f____ing hard is that. Bruce

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User Details are only visible to members.	Being stood up happens. Sadly too often. We have been stood up for several reason, but the number one seems to be not talking on the phone with the other couple before hand. Also when we go to meet a couple we give them 15-30 minutes if they haven't showed and are not answer the phone we don't waste anymore time on them. Sadly you will find flakes and time wasters. some of the worst are the Ahole guys that pretend to be a woman or a couple just to get a cheap thrill and person a few pictures. We have had much better luck weeding out this crap once we started only sending out g-rated pictures and requesting phone conversations in very short order and always before a scheduled date.
Charles City VA			Username hidden (53 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	" I admire the men that are honest about it, in spite of what may seem like negative consequences." I agree. Honesty is a much more attractive trait than trying to impress by pretending to be something you are not. As for the "levels" of bi? People can describe the details in their profile and I see many that do just that. Women who say they are comfortable with a woman but not required, guys who say oral only, couples who say she will kiss and touch but not give oral (but she WILL accept...lol). All is fine, just be honest!
Youngstown OH			Username hidden (11414 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	I agree with BLT. I am not judging a persons choice but if they engage in sex with both genders they are bi, plain and simple. A guy who sucks another man's cock is being dishonest calling himself straight. Let's put it this way. The "labels" are there to distinguish the differences. Straight= opposite sex only Gay=same sex only Bi= both sexes. Why would we even have the option of "bi" if people who had sex with both genders were considered straight? The problem is, women think it's "cool" to be bi (and their guys think it's hot!) while most guys feel condemned if they admit to being bi so they lie about it.
Youngstown OH			Username hidden (11414 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	In both instances, in my humble opinion, both are bi-sexual and this word "curious", not to be mean is bullshit. Here's my thing. I don't care what a person likes but I am not fucking and or engaging in any sexual activity with a man, other than observing him jerk off, who is either gay or "curious." This is totally for my own health and not being homophobic as I have tons of ouright gay male friends and I love them but I don't "fuck" them. And, from being a "fag hag," lol I know that most women can't compete when a man favors dick over pussy or gets used to fucking that ass because "most" women aren't giving up anal.
Vero Beach FL			Username hidden (775 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Lately, before I post a comment, I go to the page of the person who presented the question. In this case, perhaps you're advertising too much. In my opinion and experience, we're not all here for the same thing. I was stood up once and, frankly, I wouldn't wait hours for anyone. The couple should have given you the courtesy of a call or at least a text. However, the last line of your profile, coupled with the "ass" shot.....are you bi or bi-curious? Not being judgmental but a man who lets another man suck his dick, etc. (play), doesn't that make him gay or bi-curious....just asking. Maybe they discovered they signed on for more than they could deliver on but they should have told you that.
Vero Beach FL			Username hidden (775 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	I just read this somewhere... "socially ignorant!" That pretty much sums up a lot of people in the lifestyle. Love it! LMAO!
Panama City Beach FL			Username hidden (293 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Once we got stood up a couple dozen times (no call, no show), we pretty much stopped meeting couples one-on-one, and certainly stopped going out of our way to meet anyone. For the most part, we just tell people to meet us at a club or social that we'll already be at. Seriously, we've had well over 100 couples and a few singles (most with certs) tell us they would meet us and not show, most without calling or texting. It happens with such regularity to us that we really are shocked when someone does show! We just don't care anymore because we're out having fun with friends regardless, but the frequency of this phenomenon has left us in awe. We have NEVER bailed on someone without texting well in advance, and that's only happened a couple times.
Panama City Beach FL			Username hidden (293 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	I agree with the sexy ass from Va. At least text for goodness sakes.
San Marcos TX			Username hidden (23661 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	We have never been truly stood up - as in waited in some place for someone who never showed up. We have had a couple of people who disappeared the night we had plans, so we just went on our merry way without them. To me, unless you've been kidnapped, shot, or in a bad car wreck there is no reason to "no show" on anyone. That goes for swinging or any other type of social engagement. It's just RUDE to not show up. In this age where everyone has a cell phone, it's inexcusable.
Chesapeake VA			Username hidden (11813 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	That's rude not to call if you made plans. We're busy and sometimes just don't have the energy to go play but we always have the energy to call or text. That's just common courtesy.
Painesville OH			Username hidden (130 post)

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