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TOPIC: Open Doors Joining In

Created by: JackDarlene Original Starting post for this thread:
Here's something that has always bugged me. Perhaps someone can clarify this. At one time we were regular club attendees. The club met at a hotel for dancing and 'socializing'. After the dance I would often find people leaving their room doors either partway or completely open. Often people were playing together in the rooms with the open or semi-open doors. Not wanting to be pushy by any means, I simply walked on and considered it an 'oops'. Now I'm wondering if perhaps leaving the doors open constituted an implied invitation to join in the fun?

Created by: JackDarlene
Original Starting post for this thread:

Here's something that has always bugged me. Perhaps someone can clarify this. At one time we were regular club attendees. The club met at a hotel for dancing and 'socializing'. After the dance I would often find people leaving their room doors either partway or completely open. Often people were playing together in the rooms with the open or semi-open doors. Not wanting to be pushy by any means, I simply walked on and considered it an 'oops'. Now I'm wondering if perhaps leaving the doors open constituted an implied invitation to join in the fun?

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User Details are only visible to members.	If someone leaves the door open they are certainly inviting voyeurs at the very least, and it would not be out of bounds at all to inquire politely if they are interested in more company. You don't walk in without asking, however. Nor is it ever polite to bang on a closed door.
Springfield VA			Username hidden (263 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Well we recently learned about the open door thing. However, since I tend to overheat in the smaller rooms when we're having fun at the clubs, we leave the door open for air circulation. Of course, there have been plenty of spectators, whom are polite and just watch, which is fine with us. There have been some who have gotten touchy-feely without asking, and others who have straight out asked if we need a third (usually the towel sharks, of course). Once we partially closed the door, the parade slowed a bit yet still kept me somewhat cool. If we are sharing a room with another couple, we ask if they would like the door open, partially open or closed, and go with whatever makes them comfortable.
Woodstock GA			Username hidden (14 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Depends on the club with that. The one club we go to the open door means come in and watch but ask to join... They have doors that have sections if the top half is open and bottom is closed that mean don't bother us just watch if you like. If the door is closed it means do not disturb...
Bridgeport PA			Username hidden (12781 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	I loved the feeling of them watching outdide of the door, but unless you are asked to join , no you can't just walk in. JoAnn
Tucson AZ			Username hidden (7698 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Any club we ever attend that is an on premise gig is open door invites. Ask first of coarse but they want joiners.
Bridgeport PA			Username hidden (12781 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	We attend an event in Niagara Falls each year that is a complete hotel take over. It's the norm there for people that enjoy being watched by others and people that enjoy "semi" anonymous partners at this week long event to keep their doors open.
Center Valley PA			Username hidden (8529 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Here's something that has always bugged me. Perhaps someone can clarify this. At one time we were regular club attendees. The club met at a hotel for dancing and 'socializing'. After the dance I would often find people leaving their room doors either partway or completely open. Often people were playing together in the rooms with the open or semi-open doors. Not wanting to be pushy by any means, I simply walked on and considered it an 'oops'. Now I'm wondering if perhaps leaving the doors open constituted an implied invitation to join in the fun?
Fairview Heights IL			Username hidden (652 post)

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