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TOPIC: Not quite swinging, not quite Not Swinging
Created by: sjbluebirds
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We have an interesting / unusual fantasy we're trying to fulfil. We're not sure how to go about finding partners to fulfil it.

Basically, we're interested in exchanging photos -- but not the usual way.

Our idea is that we meet a new couple, the men exchange wives and cameras, and go our separate ways for the evening.

No sex would be involved, but we'd be taking erotic and/or explicit pictures of the other's partner for the evening. At the end of the evening, we'd meet up again, return the cameras and spouse, and go our separate ways.

That's it. Not swinging, but definitely a sexual encounter of a sort.

Has anyone tried this.. before? Is it workable? What might be the limitations or problems, involved?

Thanks for the feedback!

-J&J (SJ Bluebirds)

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A twist to this could be to meet at a hotel where you have a suite with two bedrooms, so neither would be far from their spouse during the event.

Louisville KY
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Well, the idea is not to play with current or former playfriends because there's a level of comfort that we're trying to avoid. We want the excitement of the 'new'.

There would be something lacking, we think, if in the back of our thoughts would always be an acknowledgement that the 'teasing' phase was already over, since we'd played with them in the past.

It's all about the tease.

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Sounds like a fun idea if we were comfortable with the couple and had played with them several times, but there's no way I'd let my wife run off into the night with someone we just met. You've been on SLS for a long time, why not try it out with some current playmates?

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I think that you will find it almost impossible to find takers. This is a VERY small niche in this community.

Colorado Springs CO
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We have an interesting / unusual fantasy we're trying to fulfil. We're not sure how to go about finding partners to fulfil it.

Basically, we're interested in exchanging photos -- but not the usual way.

Our idea is that we meet a new couple, the men exchange wives and cameras, and go our separate ways for the evening.

No sex would be involved, but we'd be taking erotic and/or explicit pictures of the other's partner for the evening. At the end of the evening, we'd meet up again, return the cameras and spouse, and go our separate ways.

That's it. Not swinging, but definitely a sexual encounter of a sort.

Has anyone tried this.. before? Is it workable? What might be the limitations or problems, involved?

Thanks for the feedback!

-J&J (SJ Bluebirds)

Fredonia NY
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TOPIC: Not quite swinging, not quite Not Swinging