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I do agree with those who have said stay away. I do disagree with he fact that you can't ask your spouse why.Thats called communication as long as you do not argue ,fight over their reasons.This allows each of you to be more in tune with whats appealing and what is not. I can understand why on this case. Its the emotional and passionate bond you already have ahd with this lady.Anytime you allow passion,emotional bonds and even love enter the game then your in toruble . There is no way to control feelings when you have strong ties with another. Best of luck

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Steer clear and drop it. Terry is giving you good adivice. Unless your wife brings it up, or the friend brings it up in the company of your wife, let it go. This type of situation, even if you were to play and everything goes fine, can grow into a huge problem for your marriage.

A lot of women, possibly your wife included, might say yes in a situation like this, thinking that its "ok since I've involved". Trust me, the jealousy issues alone will kill your marriage, let alone the other feelings that may show up later on. Jim's right, quickly cast that hook the other direction.

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Excellent advice valovers (as always) < all smiles>

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Steer clear unless your wife is enthusiastically in favor of it. It would be too easy for her to feel threatened. Besides, either of you should always be free to "veto" anyone, no questions asked, just because you don't feel comfortable about it.

There are plenty of fish in the sea. Cast your bait on the OTHER side of the boat.

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