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TOPIC: Names
Created by: jackguiness
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I was messaging with a couple earlier today and things seemed to be going well.... When I gave them my phone number i also gave them my name, which naturally is not actually JackGuiness... Then they sent me the following message

"We have been totally honest with you. A lie is a very poor way to start a relationship."

WTF!!?!?!? They were made at me because i did not use my real name when first messaging with them... a few minutes after they sent the message, they blocked me.... I could really care less, because I am not interested in meeting a couple who is going to freak out over something like a name, but am wondering if others have run into this too..... I am under the assumption that people's profile names are not their real names and that even if they give me their name that it could be a name they use for swinging, but not their real name and I really don't think it is that big of a deal.... I assume people do it for discretion ... What do other people think... Am I right for thinkng they are whack-jobs for getting so upset over a profile name? I should add that I gave them my phone number and told them to call me anytime, yet they never reciprocated.

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Ditto to the previous posts...(guess what? My real name is not "Uriah"). What if you said something in bed that ticked them off in the same irrational manner? (yes, it happens!)...you are fortunate that you learned of the incompatibility at the very early stage.

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Consider yourself truly blessed it seems you narrowly avoided drama. If they foolish believed your name was Jack it's a pity they blocked you...you could have sold them some Bean Sprouts, Candle Sticks and told them your girl friends name was Jill.

Just saying...Mrs Sav

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I was messaging with a couple earlier today and things seemed to be going well.... When I gave them my phone number i also gave them my name, which naturally is not actually JackGuiness... Then they sent me the following message

"We have been totally honest with you. A lie is a very poor way to start a relationship."

WTF!!?!?!? They were made at me because i did not use my real name when first messaging with them... a few minutes after they sent the message, they blocked me.... I could really care less, because I am not interested in meeting a couple who is going to freak out over something like a name, but am wondering if others have run into this too..... I am under the assumption that people's profile names are not their real names and that even if they give me their name that it could be a name they use for swinging, but not their real name and I really don't think it is that big of a deal.... I assume people do it for discretion ... What do other people think... Am I right for thinkng they are whack-jobs for getting so upset over a profile name? I should add that I gave them my phone number and told them to call me anytime, yet they never reciprocated.

Roanoke VA
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