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Created by: JOEY8199 Original Starting post for this thread:
We see some couples have this demand in their profile. NO BI MEN or NO COUPLES WITH BI MEN Just curious as to why that is? I can understand "no gay men" since that would be pointless. But whats with the "no bi men" Being bi is just being flexible really. Being bi does not change sex with women for me. I dont think I have sex with a woman any different than a straight guy...lol Also being bi doesnt mean you MUST have sex with both parties to a couple. It just means you COULD if thats what was wanted. From our experience, if you are even slightly active in this lifestyle you are already having sex with bi guys. Almost every bi guy or bi couple we have met lists themselves as straight online. So since its not really bi men that you wont have sex with......Because you already do that...... Should you put in your profile......."NO HONEST MEN" Just curious

Created by: JOEY8199
Original Starting post for this thread:

We see some couples have this demand in their profile.

NO BI MEN  or   NO COUPLES WITH BI MEN

Just curious as to why that is?   I can understand "no gay men" since that would be pointless.   But whats with the "no bi men"

Being bi is just being flexible really.   Being bi does not change sex with women for me.  I dont think I have sex with a woman any different than a straight guy...lol

Also being bi doesnt mean you MUST have sex with both parties to a couple.  It just means you COULD if thats what was wanted.

From our experience, if you are even slightly active in this lifestyle you are already having sex with bi guys.

Almost every bi guy or bi couple we have met lists themselves as straight online.

So since its not really bi men that you wont have sex with......Because you already do that......

Should you put in your profile......."NO HONEST MEN"

Just curious

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User Details are only visible to members.	this may be a bit off topic but just yesterday morning I got IM'd. We chatted and some guy was trying to get me to let him come over for sex. Now on my profile it says no single guys. So I look at his profile, Straight guy\Bi wife and NO SINGLE MEN in big letters all over it. I told him.. Sorry. Get your wife to come over too and we can all play. He gets mad and closes the chat. I could not help but laugh. Anyway... back to your normal discussion.
Fort Worth TX			Username hidden (62 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Very kewl post Joey.
Spring TX			Username hidden (1853 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Joey I can agree with your list with one exception: "2. If you are a couple and play with men you can only go by what he tells you. Be safe regardless because that low risk "straight guy" you are fucking tonite just may have been the center of the bareback gay gangbang the night before." I think you need to add in 'oral only bi guy' with 'straight guy'. I do think that most people are honest. I think people are more apt to tell what they consider a 'little lie'.
Pittsburgh PA			Username hidden (14618 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Sounds about right to me, Joey. Very well summed up.
Colorado Springs CO			Username hidden (35 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Well I think we all can agree on these points. 1. If youre bi. And a couple takes the time to specifically mention they dont want a bi guy...Dont bother with them.. It doesnt matter why...just accept it 2. If you are a couple and play with men you can only go by what he tells you. Be safe regardless because that low risk "straight guy" you are fucking tonite just may have been the center of the bareback gay gangbang the night before. 3. CDC stats dont apply very well to the "swinger community" And they are only as accurate as each persons honesty 4. If people were TRUTHFUL in listing their REAL orientation, they would have much more success attracting the type of people and play that they are comfortable with. 5. As many couples who say "no bi men" there are probably just as many or more who "only want bi men" SO BE HONEST IN YOUR LISTING. Can we all agree on that?
Mount Juliet TN			Username hidden (662 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Perfect, it's the analogy that works here. Anal is anal, oral is oral, bi woman and men can do both. Many bi men don't want to do anal. Their reasons may be very much the same as yours for not having a cock up your ass. You seem clueless as to why i and other bi men would choose not to do anal. It's a completely different experience than oral. The risk, even with a condom, is considerably higher than oral sex. Risk is very important to me and others. You and I have disagreed on bareback risk. It's clear that we both are concerned with risk. Did you not get that I'm as concerned with risk as you?
Enosburg Falls VT			Username hidden (969 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	" Last I checked it IS our right to do what WE like with our pussy and dicks. So why can this not be understood. Get the hell over it." This has been pointed out sooo many times and they just don't fucking get it. It is called freedom of choice. I find the constant use of guilt attacks on a person to get them to relent pathetic. I find the continual lack of respect for a person to decide who for whatever reason to have sex with pathetic. And the continual whining of not getting one's way is absolutely pathetic.
Sanford NC			Username hidden (18796 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	PD I'm not talking about how they start out. It's where they end up, and what they'll say to be accepted that concerns me. DandJ Anal sex with a strap on is POOR analogy. A dildo is NOT part of the body.
Pittsburgh PA			Username hidden (14618 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Perfect, your analogy isn't quite right. Oral sex for bi women is analogous to oral sex for bi males. Anal sex for bi males would be analogous to anal sex with strap ons for women. Don't know many bi women who do that when playing with women. Sucking cock is fun. Anal is a whole other level. Pervs, the risk data for oral only bi males is clearly far less than the MSM group as a whole. The question is how to determine who is oral only. That difficulty is the same as determining who is actually straight. You can only go by the truthfullness of the individuals. Groups don't help with truthfullness.
Enosburg Falls VT			Username hidden (969 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	I'm not sure, perfect, but I think some curious males may just start out oral, because they don't think they would like anal. But since my man is straight, and has no attraction to a man's face or body, I'm not sure. I have vanilla male friends who have claimed to have experimented orally, and they don't experiment anymore. I have a gay male friend who does oral, but as for anal, he likes to pitch, as he said once, he does not catch ( meaning take it in the ass). I guess some men see catching as submissive maybe? As for trusting bi men who say they are oral only- I would trust at face value, unless I knew them as a good friend, because even with meeting straight couples, a few sometimes want to try to change rules and boundaries after a few meets, when they feel comfortable.
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