Moving past meeting: Swingers Discussion 166337

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Created by: aquest4fun	The original post for this thread was deleted.

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User Details are only visible to members.	Aquest4fun, Picking up singles, there is no magic answer to this. Things move along at the pace you are comfortable with. I'm sure you would be inundated with e-mails from singles if you were to add that you were looking for singles in your profile, but you will have to sift through a lot of fakes and undesirable to you until you find one that you like. Much like in a couples meet, take the time to be comfortable first, if you jump in too fast you might have a bad experience. If there is a swingers group meet and greet in your area go out to it and talk with the people, couples talk and pass the word about who to avoid, or who is fun to be with, this advice can eliminate some hassles.
Palm Beach Gardens FL			Username hidden (188 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	that can be the hard part. I find it harder in one on one meetings then I do at the club. If we are at the club and we have been talking and flirting with a couple it is so easy to say something like "we are headed to the back to play now, your welcome to join us" which is also easy to opt out of for the other couple. With meeting outside a club setting it is a bit harder sometimes to get a read on people. I don't like to seem pushy ever. We have been lucky that most of the time things just sort of fell into place. PG
Louisville KY			Username hidden (13985 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Interesting there haven't been more replies to this. It sounds like you've had the most luck with the more direct and semi-aggressive types because they make it clearer they are interested and probably more confidently make the first move. The reason you don't get somewhere with other types is they are like you - they are waiting for clear signals from you and aren't sure they are getting them. Our strong suggestion is to get back to couples you've met and are interested in with a message expressing an interest in "meeting together in a much more intimate setting", like your place, theirs, or even a hotel. People will know what you mean. If they are all for it, nothing more really will need to be said other than perhaps "no expectations" if you want to take the pressure off you or them, but even then people will know why you want to meet "in an intimate setting".... :)
Hopkinton MA			Username hidden (256 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Asking is always good! Work out a way for the two of you to know where the interest level is. It can be a signal or a word or whatever. Even if you two want to excuse yourselves for a few minutes to chat about it. After awhile you'll probably both be able to read each others interest very easily. We typically do let the ladies do the asking and they chat about any do's and don'ts that need to be discussed, then they fill in the boys and it's onto the next level. That works really well for us and for most of the people that we know. Good luck. It'll get easier the more times y'all do it! ;)
New Orleans LA			Username hidden (497 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	The thing that has always worked the best for us is just asking them point blank if they are interested in playing. Carrie
Corpus Christi TX			Username hidden (16525 post)

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TOPIC: Moving past meeting