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OP, if it happened, then it was not "over the line". If you're in the lifestyle it is assumed that you are (1) a consenting adult, and (2) assertive enougth to make your intentions and boundries known. If this was not the case, you might reconsider your place in the lifestyle.
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I'm not proud of my post. Why would I feel a sense of pride for asking a reasonable question? I'm not the one who wrote the post. I was trying to get the details before I responded.
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Yeah, bad boy Akron! How dare you try to inject humor to an otherwise beige thread!
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cple i am sorry you had that experience. Unfortunately it is not a rare thing. It is something you have to handle in the way you feel is best. Its a hard call. Personally for me I probably would have mentioned it in a tactful way and then ignored them. I do not think you should start trouble definately...however, he needs to also understand that what he did was insensitive, rude and not okay. It is not okay to put your hands on another person's body without permission. You handled it well I think :0).
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Nice Post Akron fun times Are you proud of that response?
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This is a bit of hindsight but... same room play would have quieted all that noise real quick.
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Wow. That's not cool. Was the guy drunk or on something? Was the Mrs just as aggressive as the Mr?
We had a somewhat similar experience. Our "take-away" from the situation was that we needed to be firmer with our boundaries and come up with our own "safe word" that will end play immediately if someone from the other couple crosses the line. It's a weird experience, but we are new as well and learning from each encounter. |
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cpl: Why would you want to go near or contact PIGS like that again. Stay away from PIGS you will only get dirty.
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Did she taste it?
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We had the same issue once. what we did was right them a nice email explaining how and why we felt they had crossed the line. then we said no hard feelings and if you would like to discuss further come to our house for a very vanilla dinner date.
They accepted and we had a nice adult evening of discussion. we did play with them again and are still friends. |
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