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Lost, I understand what you are saying. however let me give you a "for instance"

We all know the lifestyle is about preference and attraction, so you have this single male or female in their mid 30's contact you about wanting to get together sometime. so you read over their profile and they are new but seem to be a nice person, their photo's portray them a an attractive person, THEN you read the certs and see that one is from a couple that is MUCH older say late 60's,not HWP as well as someone whom you are definitely not attracted to and says how that person was great as a play partner. then you read the next cert and again how awesome this person is but again this cert is from someone that you would NEVER even think to play with.

do you think to yourself, Hmmm.... self, it looks like this person is just playing with anyone regardless of age or attraction, so they can have sex and put the proverbial notch in the bedpost?

BTW lost.. I see nothing wrong with your ass

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I got an email, from a single male. I would have turned him down, had I been interested in him, because of a person who certified him. The person, was not a very good person and their cert implied they had played. I had no desire to be, with someone, who would be with a person like that.

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Just wondering if anyone out there has either met or the bigger one is NOT met a couple or single male/female based on who may have certified them and what the certification states?"

No. Now...I have emailed cert givers in regard to single men, and I have had a few ladies do the same to me. A cert is like a reference in a way. Do I hold them as the gold standard? Hell no. Lets face it, if someone gave me a bad cert I would not put it on my profile, so we only see the tiptoe through the tulip ones. You do not see the whole picture with certs. I try to not go by gossip overall anyways because I know what some people have said about MY ASS without knowing me. If someone says someone is dangerous and I trust who they are though yes, that pulls weight with me.

They are usefull with singles though, making sure a guy is one who really does show up.

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AFT, that's what I'm thinking too..

Sebastian FL
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If someone has a certification from a real dolt and it implies they slept together, forget it.

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Certs are just one of many factors in determining the bona fides of potential playmates. No one of the factors are exclusive.

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We read the certs and concider the source. It dose not effect our decision every time. Certs are a tool that are here for you to use or not to use. Your choice.

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Just wondering if anyone out there has either met or the bigger one is NOT met a couple or single male/female based on who may have certified them and what the certification states?

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